#The Inspiration Corner
Someone once asked a woman, "Does your husband make you happy?"
The moment the question was asked, her husband straightened his posture, beaming with absolute confidence. He just knew his wife would say "yes," because she had never complained about a single thing throughout their marriage.
However, his wife responded with a loud, definitive, "No."
"No, my husband does not make me happy."
The husband was completely blindsided, but his wife didn't stop there.
"My husband has never made me happy, and he doesn't make me happy now. I am happy. Whether I am happy or not doesn't depend on him; I am the only person responsible for my own joy.
I made a conscious choice to be happy in every single situation and every moment of my life. Because if my happiness depended on another human being, on material things, or on external circumstances, I would be in serious trouble.
Everything in this life is in a constant state of flux: people, wealth, my own body, the weather, sudden joys, friendships, and even my physical and mental health. I could go on forever with that list.
I have to choose happiness regardless of what’s happening around me. Whether I have a lot or a little, I’m happy. Am I going out socializing, or am I staying home alone? I’m happy. Am I rich or poor? I’m happy.
Yes, I am married, but I was already completely happy when I was single.
I source my happiness from within.
There are always people who say, 'I can't be happy today because I'm sick, because I'm broke, because it’s too hot, because it’s too cold, because someone insulted me, because someone stopped loving me, because I don't know how to love myself, because my kids are stressing me out, because my friends let me down, because my job is mediocre,' and the excuses go on and on.
I love my life not because it's any easier than anyone else's, but because I made a executive decision to thrive as an individual. I own my happiness.
When I take that massive obligation off my husband’s shoulders—or anyone else's—I completely release them from the burden of carrying my emotional weight. And honestly, that makes life a whole lot lighter for everyone involved."
~ Shared As Received ~