SPIRTUAL WOMAN

(The Priestess, The Goddess, The Medicine Woman)

Ladies… If you love like a storm and feel like a prayer… this post is about you.

Most men have never loved a spiritual woman…

because a woman like this is not built for ordinary love.

She is not a “party girl.”

She is not a convenience.

She is not weekend entertainment.

She is not looking for distraction.

She is a priestess.

A goddess.

A medicine woman.

A queen with ancient memory in her bones.

Most of her life, she has been told she is too much…

when in truth, she was simply too deep for shallow men.

She feels more.

She sees deeper.

She loves harder.

She breaks open wider.

She carries intuition like a sword

and softness like holy water.

A woman like this is not wired for shallow connection.

Her soul demands truth.

Her body demands presence.

Her heart demands depth.

Her spirit demands a man who has met himself.

She is not for the faint-hearted.

She is for the man whose masculinity is not performance…

but presence.

❤️‍🔥 Men Who Try To Love Her Casually Will Break Themselves Against Her Depth

A spiritual woman is not impressed by status.

Or flash.

Or ego.

Or bravado.

Or surface-level charm.

She is not seduced by what you say.

She is seduced by what you embody.

Your consistency.

Your integrity.

Your emotional clarity.

Your grounded masculine energy.

She is a woman who reads energy like scripture.

Your words don’t matter if your nervous system doesn’t match them.

She will feel your insecurity.

She will sense your hesitation.

She will hear the tremors in your truth.

You cannot deceive a woman who sees with her soul.

❤️‍🔥 What She Brings Into a Man’s Life Is Not Of This World

A spiritual woman amplifies everything she touches.

When she loves a man…

his confidence expands

his purpose sharpens

his creativity ignites

his intuition strengthens

his emotional world softens

his spiritual path deepens

She becomes the mirror that shows him his potential.

She becomes the muse that awakens his fire.

She becomes the sanctuary where his soul finally rests.

Even the strongest priestess gets tired of holding everything alone.

When she finally feels protected instead of burdened…

she becomes a force that can transform a man’s entire life.

She brings him closer to God.

Closer to himself.

Closer to the man he was born to be.

But this level of feminine power

requires a man who can hold the intensity.

❤️‍🔥 To Love a Spiritual Woman, You Must Become a Warrior-King

She does not want a boy.

She does not want a coward.

She does not want a man who is intimidated by emotion or depth.

She wants a man who is rooted.

A man who knows who he is.

A man whose presence can steady her storms…

without trying to silence them.

She needs a man strong enough to protect her in the physical realm…

so she can do her sacred work in the spiritual realm.

She is a healer.

You are her guardrail.

She is magic.

You are the grounding force that lets her fly without burning.

She is the oracle.

You are the warrior who stands watch while she opens portals inside herself.

She protects you with intuition, vision, emotional intelligence, and spiritual sight.

You protect her with stability, direction, masculine containment, and unwavering presence.

Together you become the balance.

The Priestess and the King.

❤️‍🔥 How To Love a Woman Like This

Hold her with presence.

Not pressure.

Match her depth.

Not her chaos.

Listen to her intuition.

Not your ego.

Stand in your truth.

Not your fear.

Honor her softness.

Not her wounds.

Protect her body.

And she will protect your soul.

When she cries… do not fix her.

Hold her.

When she doubts… do not shrink.

Stand steady.

When she opens… do not flinch.

Receive her.

When she loves… do not run.

Meet her.

She will test your depth.

She will test your strength.

She will test your emotional capacity.

Not to tear you down…

but to see if she can surrender into you.

❤️‍🔥 And If You Can Hold Her…

She Will Devote Herself To You

A spiritual woman gives a man her spaciousness.

Her intuition.

Her softness.

Her nurturing.

Her loyalty.

Her trust.

Her sacred devotion.

She will speak life into your dreams.

She will pray over your vision.

She will see the man you are becoming

and pull that version of you forward.

When she feels safe…

her body softens…

her breath slows…

her walls fall away…

and she lets you see the woman beneath the armor.

She becomes the feminine force

that awakens the King inside you.

This is the kind of woman who will make you rise.

Not because she demands it…

but because her presence calls it forth.

If you can meet the depths inside her…

you will never know a more devoted love.

❤️‍🔥 So To the Men Reading This…

If you ever find a woman like this…

a spiritual woman

a priestess

a goddess

a medicine woman

a queen…

Do not play with her.

Do not take her for granted.

Do not treat her like the women who came before her.

Love her with your whole chest.

Stand in your power.

Protect her.

Lead with integrity.

Match her devotion.

And she will give you a love

that feels like coming home to your own soul.

— Eric Graham 🙏❤️‍🔥

What quality do you believe is most essential in a man…

to hold a woman like this with strength and reverence?

BHAGAVADGEETA FREE THERAPIST

SECOND CHANCE

Never give a man a second chance if he:

Disrespected you. No excuses.

Because respect is not something you beg for or teach—it’s the bare minimum. If he felt comfortable belittling you once, he’ll do it again.

Cheated. Trust doesn’t return.

Once loyalty is broken, the relationship is forever cracked. You may forgive, but you will never forget, and love should never feel like constant suspicion.

Was abusive, in any form.

Emotional, verbal, physical, or psychological—abuse is abuse. Love does not hurt, control, intimidate, or diminish you.

Lied again and again.

Patterns matter. Repeated lies show character, not mistakes. A dishonest man will always protect himself before protecting you.

Made empty promises.

Words mean nothing without action. If he kept telling you “I’ll change” but never did, believe the behavior—not the apology.

Ignored your needs, always.

If you were constantly begging to be heard, valued, or prioritized, that wasn’t love—it was neglect.

Took you for granted.

Someone who benefits from your love while offering the bare minimum does not deserve access to you.

Only wanted you when it was easy.

Real love shows up in hard moments. If he disappeared when things got uncomfortable, he was never committed—only convenient.

Blamed you for his mistakes.

A man who can’t take accountability will always make you feel guilty for his failures. That’s manipulation, not growth.

Showed you his true character. Believe it.

People reveal who they are through consistent behavior. Don’t romanticize potential or cling to who you hoped he’d be.

Second chances are not owed.

Protecting your peace is not cruelty—it’s self-respect.

PLANT YOUR OWN GARDEN AND DECORATE YOUR OWN SOUL

Remember to plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of always waiting for someone to bring you flowers. Because sometimes, the people you’re waiting for might never come. And even if they do, they might not bring the flowers you hoped for.

You can’t depend on others to make you feel special, seen, loved all the time. People have their own battles and their own lives, also sometimes, they forget to water your heart. That’s why it’s so important to take care of yourself first. Plant your dreams, water your peace, grow your happiness like a little garden inside you. Even if no one claps for you, clap for yourself. Even if no one notices your growth, be proud of it anyway.

Don’t wait for someone to tell you you’re beautiful, feel it in the way you treat yourself kindly. Don’t wait for someone to remind you of your worth, see it in the way you rise again after every fall. Decorating your soul means filling your life with things that bring you peace. It means spending time doing what you love, listening to your heart, being gentle with your mistakes and forgiving yourself.

One day, someone may come with flowers. But by then, your own garden will already be blooming. And that person won’t complete you, they’ll simply add to the beauty you already built for yourself. So love yourself like you always wanted to be loved. Care for your heart like it’s something precious. You are not meant to sit in silence, waiting for someone else to bring you happiness. You are the gardener. You are the artist. You are the soul. And you deserve to bloom forever. 💐

— Dorothea.

LORD SHIVA SACRED PLACES

Shiva did not only accept prayers at these sacred places.

He spoke.

At Amarnath, He revealed immortality.

At Kashi, He guided the soul beyond death.

At Arunachala, He taught through silence itself.

These were not stories meant to inspire belief they were truths meant to transform life.

But sacred words remain symbolic

until a Guru helps us understand their meaningand live their impact.

Because wisdom is not inherited by geography it is transmitted through guidance.

🕉️ Some truths are heard only when one is ready to listen.

FRIENDSHIP REAL ONE

There’s a friend I hold with nothing but respect.

Not because she was perfect.

Not because she never stumbled or got things wrong.

But because when it mattered, she showed up.

Our friendship was never loud.

It didn’t need constant reassurance or public proof.

It was steady.

Honest.

Safe.

The kind of connection that doesn’t rush you.

The kind that lets you breathe.

She saw the parts of me others walked away from.

The tired parts.

The complicated parts.

The parts that weren’t easy to love.

And she stayed anyway.

Not out of obligation.

Not out of habit.

Out of choice.

She didn’t try to fix me.

She didn’t minimize what I was carrying.

She simply stood beside me and made space.

That kind of presence changes you.

Because of her, I believe in real connection again.

In loyalty that doesn’t need reminders.

In friendship that doesn’t disappear when life gets heavy or inconvenient.

She showed me that true friendship isn’t about constant contact or perfect timing.

It’s about consistency.

About showing up with honesty.

About staying when it would be easier to leave.

She’s more than a friend.

She’s proof.

Proof that some people don’t need to be loud to be powerful.

That some bonds don’t need explanation to be real.

That true friendship still exists, quietly holding you together when everything else feels uncertain.

And for that, she will always have my respect.

KARMA HAS NO MENU

A beautiful butterfly flew around the meadows and enjoyed its freedom and the wonderful world around her.

One day the snake noticed her and began chasing her to eat her. The butterfly ran all day, where it wasn't trying to hide, but the snake quickly and silently slid into the grass and kept coming to it, ready to devour it.

Finally, the beautiful butterfly got tired of the pursuit, saw that there was no way to escape from the vicious snake, and gave up. But in the last moment before its end, she turned to her and said:

- Can I ask you something before you eat me?

- It is not in my nature to give explanations - turned the snake away, - but, come on, let it go from me... Ask.

- Do you basically feed on butterflies?

- Nope.

- Have I done something bad to you?

- Nope.

- Then why do you want to destroy me?

– You just tease me with your beauty... And by the fact that you fly!

Moral Of The Story:

“That is the nature of toxic,evil people: first they pretend to be good in order to trap their target. They then fulfill all their demands, relentlessly torment innocent people, and still remain unsatisfied even after ruining their lives—until they finally destroy them completely.”

MOTHER VS FATHER

Mother vs Father

 

This malayalam write up  brought tears in my eyes, Please read

 

One grown  up son asked  his mother”To bring us up like this , who did more sacrifice-You or father?

 

Mother told  “you should have asked  this to your father because, compared  to his sacrifice ,

I have almost done nothing,When we married  each other, your father  was not at all like this.

He has his own interests and   desires, But then on for my sake   and for the sake of you,

Children, he started running.We needed food cloth and medicines  ,You needed  monety for education

If we are like this, it is 100% his sweat”

 

The son then went to his father   and asked the same   question. Father’s answer was  different.

“I do not know how much sacrifice  she did?, Yo bring you up , to make you big , What  she underwent

She never told me  , nor do I know.It is her patience   and spirit of bearing   any thing, that  made  us,

Reach this stage,She said no to all her desires and dreams   for that, for the sake of us,

She undersood my income and spent   accordingly,She never asked me what  she needed but only those ,

she cannot manage  .She was fighting with life  along with me

My sacrifice compared to hers  is nothing’

 

That son told his siblings , “we are the most lucky persons in this world.WE have a mother who recognizes the sacrifice of father and a father  who recognizes her sacrificeWe do have a father and mother  , but two feathers  on our golden crown>?

In a world full of noise, one of the most important choices you’ll ever make is deciding who you let close to your heart. Real love isn’t just about being wanted, it’s about being understood, respected, and cherished in ways words can hardly describe.

Choose someone who doesn’t just sit beside you but feels every beat of your soul. Someone who celebrates your laughter like sunshine and carries your sadness as if it were their own. Love is not passive; it’s an active devotion, a daily decision to honor your heart.

Be with the one who stays when life isn’t perfect. The one who doesn’t run when you’re difficult to love or when your scars show. Instead, they lean closer, touch your broken pieces with patience, and remind you, “You’re safe with me.” That’s the kind of love that heals.

The right person won’t see your scars as flaws. They’ll see them as proof of your strength. They’ll help you bloom in places you thought were forever barren. With them, love won’t just comfort you, it will transform you.

They won’t make you beg for effort. They’ll show up, every single day, because loving you isn’t a burden, it’s their joy. You won’t feel like an option; you’ll feel like a priority. And that kind of love will teach you something powerful: you should never settle for less.

Because when love is real, it doesn’t come with excuses. It comes with presence, effort, and devotion. It makes you feel seen, heard, and held, like you finally found home in another soul.

And in the end, that’s what love should be: the calm in your chaos, the light in your darkest night, and the hand you’ll always want to hold, no matter where life takes you.

~Tanvir Sourov

THE PARTNER THAT YOU CHOOSE IS A REFLECTION OF YOURSELF

Never force a relationship. Sometimes, it's better to let go than to hold on to someone who doesn’t truly see you. Don’t break your own heart trying to make something work that was never meant to. You can’t make someone care, be faithful, or be the person you need.

Find someone who wants to be successful as much as you do. Someone who puts effort into their hustle as much as into their looks. Someone you can see your future with. Someone you can pray and hustle with.

Remember this, beauty fades but a good mindset is a lifetime investment..

Be brave enough to heal, even when it hurts. Healing isn’t easy, it’s messy, painful, and uncomfortable. But staying broken is far worse.

Pain doesn’t go away when ignored. It seeps into everything, draining your joy, and leaving you stuck in survival mode. Healing means facing that pain, letting yourself feel, and choosing to grow through it.

You don’t have to have all the answers right now. Just don’t give up on yourself. You deserve to feel whole again. 

One day, you’ll look back and realize the pain was temporary, but the strength you gained is forever.

Staying broken was never an option. You were always meant to heal. You were always meant to rise.

📷✍️: Diary of a Soldier's Wife

SECRET OF GOOD RELATIONSHIP

Some secrets about a great relationship:

1. Lets walk together 

I don't want you to walk ahead of me. I don't want you to walk behind me. 

Lets walk together, shoulder to shoulder. 

2. I need your support 

I am strong but I am weak also.

You are strong and you are also weak.

But the beauty is that you are there to guide me when and where I am weak. And obviously I am there to stand by you in your  moments of weakness.

3. Care

I want you to care for me. I promise that I will care for you. It's not that easy for both of us, I know. But our love will make it possible.

4. Sharing 

Finance and responsibilities...of course we will share. But what about our emotions and feelings? Yes, I promise that I am available to you...you just think of me. I am there. And I know that you are there for me, whenever I need your shoulder.

5. Communication 

Words are not enough most of the times. We will have our own language to communicate to each other. Let your eyes speak to me. Let your silence guide me. Let your whispers thrill me. Let your pauses fill me. 

6. I am not here to change you. And I am not going to change myself. Lets accept each other, the way we are.

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MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN

He told her he'd marry her when they were just kids. She laughed. Eighteen years later, he asked again—and this time, she said yes.

Gabriel García Márquez was 13 years old when he first saw Mercedes Barcha at a school dance in Colombia. She was nine, wearing a beautiful dress, and he was captivated.

In that bold way only teenagers can manage, he walked up and told her: "One day, I'm going to marry you."

Mercedes thought he was joking. Who takes a 13-year-old boy seriously?

But Gabriel—Gabo, as everyone called him—was dead serious.

For years, they stayed in touch but lived separate lives. He pursued journalism and writing. She built her own path. But he never forgot that promise.

When Gabo was 30, he showed up again. This time, he wasn't a boy making wild predictions. He was a man keeping a promise.

"I told you I'd marry you," he said.

In 1958, Mercedes Barcha became Mercedes García Márquez. They built a life together, had two sons—Rodrigo and Gonzalo—and faced everything that came next as partners.

What came next nearly broke them.

By the mid-1960s, Gabo had published several books, but he wasn't famous. He wasn't wealthy. He was a struggling writer with a family to support, haunted by a story he couldn't stop thinking about—an epic tale of a fictional town called Macondo, spanning generations, mixing reality with magic.

He called it "One Hundred Years of Solitude."

But to write it properly, he needed time. Not stolen hours between jobs—real, uninterrupted, focused time. So he made a decision that terrified Mercedes: he would quit everything else and write full-time.

They had almost no savings.

Gabo sold their car. The bills piled up. Creditors came calling. For 18 months, Mercedes stretched every peso, juggled debts, and kept the household running while Gabo disappeared into his manuscript every day.

Friends worried. Family questioned the decision. But Mercedes never wavered.

"Keep writing," she told him. "We'll figure out the rest."

Finally, in 1966, the manuscript was finished. Gabo emerged from his writing cave with a book he believed in—but they faced one final, almost comical obstacle:

They had no money to mail it to the publisher.

The manuscript was over 1,300 pages. The postage to Buenos Aires would cost about 120 pesos—money they simply didn't have.

So Mercedes did what she'd been doing for 18 months: she found a way. She pawned jewelry. She sold household items. Some stories say she even pawned her hairdryer—which, if true, meant something in 1960s Colombia where such things weren't cheap.

She gathered enough money to send the manuscript in two packages. They mailed it and waited, completely uncertain whether their gamble would pay off.

It did.

"One Hundred Years of Solitude" was published in 1967. It sold out its first printing in days. Within weeks, it was a sensation across Latin America. Within years, it was translated into dozens of languages and recognized as one of the greatest novels of the 20th century.

Gabo received awards, recognition, and finally financial security. In 1982, he won the Nobel Prize in Literature, becoming one of the most celebrated authors in the world.

But he never forgot who made it possible.

In interviews throughout his life, García Márquez credited Mercedes not just with supporting his career, but with being the foundation it was built on. She wasn't just the woman behind the great man—she was his partner, his first reader, his anchor when doubt crept in.

When someone once asked Mercedes what it was like being married to a Nobel Prize winner, she smiled and said something like: "I married him long before anyone gave him prizes."

She had believed in him when he was just a boy making promises. She believed in him when he had nothing but a wild story about a town that didn't exist. And she believed in him when believing meant pawning everything they owned to mail a manuscript into the unknown.

Gabriel García Márquez and Mercedes Barcha were married for 56 years, until his death in 2014. She passed away in 2020.

Their love story reminds us that behind every great achievement is often someone who believed first—someone who said "keep going" when quitting would have been easier, someone who sacrificed quietly while the world was watching someone else.

Success stories usually focus on the person who crossed the finish line. But rarely do they tell you about the person who helped them get there—who held things together, who made the impossible possible, who pawned the hairdryer so a manuscript could reach its destination.

Mercedes didn't write "One Hundred Years of Solitude."

But without her, the world might never have read it.

And maybe that's the real story worth telling: not just what we achieve, but who believed in us when we had nothing but a dream and a promise.

TODAY GOVATSA DWADASI

THE SACRED COW IN SANATHAN DHARMA: UNDERSTANDING ITS SYMBOLISM AND IMPORTANCE

By ASHWIN TRIKAMJEE.

THE cow occupies a very important place in Sanathan Dharma. The act of Gau Daan (gifting of a cow) is an ancient ritual which followers of Sanathan Dharma have been engaging in for centuries.

The word Gau commonly means cow. However, the word Gau also has other meanings.

Its other meanings are: source of food, symbol of life and senses. Our Sanathan scriptures abound with verses that emphasise the importance of the cow and Gau Daan.

In the Rig Veda, we are reminded that: “One who deprives others of milk by slaughtering cows, O King, if such a wrongdoer does not cease by other means, then you should not hesitate to cut off his head.”

In the Ramcharitmanas, we read that God appears in embodied form for the welfare of cows. The cow is an object of reverence and adoration. The cow is a surrogate mother. Science has declared that cow milk is the closest thing to a mother’s milk.

In the Mahabharata, Bhishma Pitamaha, as he lay on his bed of arrows at Kurukshetra, says: “The gift of a cow is truly regarded as a superior gift. Cows rescue the whole world from calamity by yielding milk. If one gives even one cow and a calf to an appropriate person at the right time, one is sure to see that cow approachs one in heaven in the form of a river of sacred water capable of granting the fruition of every wish.”

In Chapter 10 and Verse 28 of the Bhagavad Gita, Shri Krishna says that he is Kama Dhenu (a wish-yielding cow) amongst the cows. Non-violence and ahimsa, the primary basis of vegetarianism, have long been central to the religious traditions of Hindu Dharma.

Sivaya Subramuniyaswami (2008), in his book Dancing with Siva, says: “Hindus teach vegetarianism as a way to live with a minimum of hurt to other beings, for to consume meat, fish, fowl or eggs is to participate indirectly in acts of cruelty and violence against the animal kingdom.”

In the Mahabharata, for instance, the great warrior Bhishma explains to Yudhishtira that the meat of animals is like the flesh of one’s son and that the foolish person who eats meat must be considered the vilest of human beings.

In the ancient Rig Veda, we read: “O vegetable, be succulent, wholesome, strengthening; and thus, body, be fully grown.”

The Yajur Veda summarily dictates: “Do not injure the beings living on the earth, in the air and the water.”

The beautiful Thirukural, a widely read 2 000-year-old masterpiece of ethics, speaks of conscience: “When a person realises that meat is the butchered flesh of another creature, he must abstain from eating it.”

Hindu scriptures unambiguously support ahimsa, vegetarianism, and respect for cows.

THE LAMP THAT REFUSED TO GO OUT

The Lamp That Refused to Go Out

Long ago, at the edge of a quiet forest, stood a small temple.

No crowds. No priests. No donations.

Only one man remained — an old caretaker named Devadatta.

At the center of the temple burned a single oil lamp before Nārāyaṇa.

Devadatta had a simple vow:

“As long as I breathe, this lamp will not go out.”

Every morning before sunrise, he cleaned the temple, bathed in the river, and lit the lamp.

People laughed.

“Why waste oil on a forgotten god?” they said.

Devadatta only smiled.

Years passed.

A drought came.

The river dried.

Crops failed.

Families left the village one by one.

Devadatta stayed.

One evening, the oil pot was almost empty.

No money. No oil. No food.

Kneeling before the lamp, he did not ask for help.

He did not beg for a miracle.

He whispered only this:

“Lord, I have done my part. The rest is Yours.”

That night, a sudden storm shook the land.

Thunder roared.

A great tree fell near the temple, tearing open the earth.

At dawn, Devadatta stepped outside and froze.

Beneath the roots flowed an oil-rich spring, hidden for generations.

Water returned.

Fields turned green.

Life came back.

People called it a miracle.

Devadatta said softly:

“No miracle happened.

Dharma was simply remembered.”

Quiet Truth:

Sanātana Dharma is not protected by noise or numbers.

It survives through those who stay,

those who serve,

those who keep the lamp burning when no one is watching.

Reflection:

The world is not sustained by those who speak loudly about God, but by those who quietly live their duty 🙏

TWO HEARTS

When two hearts are meant to meet, they recognize each other even in the chaos of life. 

In every look, every word, and every silence, find a connection that feels eternal. 

It’s as if the Universe itself whispered that some bonds are written in the stars and meant to be together no matter what.

Marilyn Rojas

Sometimes the Universe brings two souls together in the most beautiful unspoken way.

It's not about the distance, time or space between them, but an invisible chain that connects them on a deeper level.

When souls meet in divine alignment, their energy merges into a radiant field of love, light, and infinite possibility. 

True connection is not found in spoken words alone, but in the silent glow of shared presence, where hearts speak in vibrations 

beyond time and space.

TYPES OF PERSONS

Narcissistic — excessively self-focused; obsessed with admiration

Example: He turns every conversation back to his achievements.

Manipulative — controls others through deception or pressure

Example: She guilt-tripped him into agreeing with her decision.

Indecisive — unable to make firm decisions

Example: He changed his mind three times about the same plan.

Lazy — avoids effort or responsibility

Example: She keeps postponing tasks instead of finishing them.

Arrogant — shows an exaggerated sense of superiority

Example: He dismissed others’ ideas without even listening.

Cruel — takes pleasure in causing pain or suffering

Example: She mocked him even when she knew it hurt.

Unreliable — cannot be depended on

Example: He promised to help but didn’t show up.

Stingy — unwilling to spend or share money

Example: He never contributes, even when everyone else does.

Cynical — distrusts people’s intentions

Example: She assumes kindness always has a hidden motive.

LEARNING TREASURE

HUGS

Some hugs aren’t about romance alone — they’re about healing, safety, and unspoken understanding.

There are hugs that don’t ask questions.

They don’t demand explanations.

They simply hold you when words fail.

A hug can say, “I’m here.”

It can carry apologies never spoken, reassurance never promised, and comfort you didn’t know you needed.

Some hugs absorb your fear.

Some quiet your racing thoughts.

Some remind you that you don’t have to be strong all the time.

When two hearts meet in a hug, it’s not just arms wrapping around a body —

it’s souls saying, “You’re safe with me.”

Because real hugs carry millions of emotions…and heal thousands of feelings in a single moment.

NANSHA BOLAH

PEACE

“Let go of people who disturb your peace” means choosing your mental, emotional, and inner well-being over relationships that consistently cause stress, confusion, or pain.

It doesn’t mean you hate them or wish them harm. It means you recognize that their presence disrupts your calm, drains your energy, or keeps you stuck in unhealthy patterns. Letting go is an act of self-respect, not selfishness.

Peace is not something to negotiate. Anyone who repeatedly disturbs it is showing you where boundaries are needed. Sometimes growth requires distance, not confrontation.

TOXIC PERSONALITIES

Toxic Personalities You Should Recognize

1. Manipulator

Meaning: Controls others for personal gain

Example: He twisted facts to get people on his side.

2. Gaslighter

Meaning: Makes you doubt your own memory or reality

Example: She denied saying things that clearly happened.

3. Narcissist

Meaning: Obsessed with self-importance

Example: Every conversation with him turns back to himself.

4. Passive-Aggressive

Meaning: Shows anger indirectly

Example: She agreed politely but later sabotaged the task.

5. Blame-Shifter

Meaning: Never accepts responsibility

Example: He blamed the team for mistakes he made.

6. Control Freak

Meaning: Needs control over people or situations

Example: She micromanaged every small decision.

7. Victim Player

Meaning: Always portrays themselves as wronged

Example: He played the victim instead of fixing the issue.

8. Credit Stealer

Meaning: Takes praise for others’ work

Example: She presented my idea as her own.

9. Energy Drainer

Meaning: Constantly spreads negativity

Example: After talking to him, everyone felt exhausted.

AN ACT OF KINDNESS INSPIRES KINDNESS

A man often bought oranges from an old lady.After they were weighed, paid for and put in his bag, he would always pick one from his bag, peel it, put a segment in his mouth, complain it's sour and pass on the orange to the seller.

The old lady would put one segment in her mouth and retort, "why, it's sweet," but by then he was gone with his bag.His wife, always with him, asked, "the oranges are always sweet, then why this drama every time?"

He smiled, "the old mother sells sweet oranges but never eats them herself. This way I get her to eat one, without losing her money. That's all."

The vegetable seller next to the old lady, saw this everyday.

She chided, "every time this man fusses over your oranges, and I see that you always weigh a few extra for him. Why?"

The old lady smiled, "I know he does this to feed me an orange, only, he thinks I don't understand. I never weigh extra. His love tilts the scale slightly every time."

I am a big believer in acts of kindness, no matter how small.There's no shop that sells kindness, we must develop with in us.Although doctors can now successfully transplant Hearts, they can never transplant a kind loving and warm one.

Life's joys are in these sweet little gestures of love and respect for our fellow beings.O God, Grant us always the ability to show such amazing kindness and Gestures.Blessed are those whose hearts beats with loving kindness for other peoples sake, they are the jewels of creation and reflect god in their actions.

Kindness one of the greatest gifts that you can bestow upon another.If someone is in need lend them a helping hand.Do not wait for a "thank you". you don't do good things so that others watch and appreciate you, you do it because you believe in it. True kindness should never act with conditions, It is not a business, but It lies with in the act of giving with out the expectation of something in return It is contagious so pass it on.Let kindness inspires kindness.

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