THIRUPPAVAI 16TH PAASURAM 16

 THIRUPAVAI 16 PASSURAM

NAYAGANAY NINRA NANDA

Thirupavai 16,pasuram's message emphasizes complete surrender to Krishna, describing him as the ultimate reality and the sustainer of the universe. This PAASURAM emphasize their pure hearts and sincere desire for the welfare of all (lokasangraha) through the vow, as taught by their spiritual guides.They remind the guards that the Lord Himself promised the reward (the 'parai') to them, so the guards should not obstruct them.

In this PAASURAM Krishna is described as the leader (Nāyagan), a dark-complexioned (Maṇivaṇṇan) marvel (Māyan) with a fierce demeanor for enemies but merciful to devotees. 

Thirupavai 16's philosophical themes and poetic beauty make it a popular choice for spiritual discourses and music renditions.

THIRUPPAVAI 15TH DAY

 

THIRUPPAVAI 15TH PAASURAM

"ELLE ILANG KILIYE " 

The 15th paasuram of Thiruppavai, emphasizes the importance of devotion and self-surrender. It features a witty dialogue where Andal and friends wake up a Gopi, who initially resists but then humbly accepts their call, emphasizing the ideal qualities of a devotee: politeness, acceptance of fault, and immediate prioritization of divine service over personal thoughts, all to wake up to sing Krishna's glories. Andal describes the beauty of the Lord's abode and invites the Lord to awaken and bless the devotees.Andal describes the Lord's abode as a place of bliss, adorned with precious stones and gems.She invites the Lord to awaken and bless the devotees, who are seeking His divine grace.The paasuram highlights the importance of devotion and self-surrender in attaining the Lord's grace.

Relevant Verse:

"ThozhudhAE ivvullagathu or vaanamum thozhudhAE thOzhudhAE thangaloor thozhudhaiyE"

This verse emphasizes the importance of devotion and the beauty of the Lord's abode showcasing Andal's deep love and reverence for the Lord. 

RAMANA MAHARISHI BIRTHDAY

Bhagvan Sri Ramana Maharishi Quotes:

+ No one succeeds without effort... Those who succeed owe their success to perseverance.

+ The degree of freedom from unwanted thoughts and the degree of concentration on a single thought are the measures to gauge spiritual progress.

+ It is the Higher Power which does everything, and the man is only a tool. If he accepts that position, he is free from troubles; otherwise, he courts them.

+ Let come what comes, let go what goes. See what remains.

+ All bad qualities centre round the ego. When the ego is gone, Realisation results by itself. There are neither good nor bad qualities in the Self. The Self is free from all qualities. Qualities pertain to the mind only.

+ Silence is also conversation.

+ When there are thoughts, it is distraction: when there are no thoughts, it is meditation.

+ All activities and events that a body is to go through are determined at the time of conception.

+ One must realise his Self in order to open the store of unalloyed happiness.

+ You need not aspire for or get any new state. Get rid of your present thoughts, that is all.

+ I am not the perishable body, but the eternal Self.

+ Concentration of the mind is in a way common to both Knowledge and Yoga. Yoga aims at union of the individual with the universal, the Reality. This Reality cannot be new. It must exist even now, and it does exist.

+ Our own self-realization is the greatest service we can render the world.

+ Time is only an idea. There is only the Reality. Whatever you think it is, it looks like that. If you call it time, it is time. If you call it existence, it is existence, and so on. After calling it time, you divide it into days and nights, months, years, hours, minutes, etc. Time is immaterial for the Path of Knowledge.

+ If there is anything besides the Self there is reason to fear? Who sees the second? First, the ego arises and sees objects as external. If the ego does not rise, the Self alone exists and there is no second.

+ For those who have obtained unobstructed knowledge of Self, the world is seen merely as a bondage causing imagination.

+ Even the structure of the atom has been found by the mind. Therefore the mind is subtler than the atom. That which is behind the mind, namely the individual soul, is subtler than the mind.

+ Self-reform automatically brings about social reform.

+ Actions yield result by the ordinance of God as He wills.

+ Mind is consciousness which has put on limitations. You are originally unlimited and perfect. Later you take on limitations and become the mind.

+ The body dies, but the spirit that transcends it cannot be touched by death.

+ The best way to meditate is through meditation itself.

+ Consciousness is indeed always with us. Everyone knows 'I am!' No one can deny his own being.

THIRUPAVAI DAY 14

THIRUPAVAI 14TH PAASURAM 

"UNGAL PUZHAIKKADAI"

UPHOLD THE VALUES OF TRUTHFULLNESS AND ACCOUNTABILITY.

In the 14th pasuram of Thiruppavai, Andal expresses her concern about the importance of keeping promises. She laments about people who give their word without hesitation but fail to honor it, showcasing their shameless nature. Keeping promises is crucial, and failing to do so can lead to loss of reputation. This pasuram emphasizes the significance of integrity and reliability in one's words and actions.

The 14th day of the Margazhi month holds significance for reciting Thiruppavai, and devotees seek to follow the path of righteousness and devotion. By reciting these pasurams, individuals can cultivate self-discipline and devotion.Thiruppavai's 14th pasuram serves as a reminder to uphold the values of truthfulness and accountability. By adhering to these principles, one can attain spiritual growth and inner peace '.

REAL LOVE

Real love is...

Even strangers can share a bed.

Physical closeness alone does not require trust, patience, or responsibility. Desire can exist without depth, without commitment, without care.

Love is something entirely different.

Love is sacrifice — choosing another person even when it costs you time, comfort, or ego.

Love is patience — staying calm through misunderstandings, growth, and change.

Love is choice — made every day, not just when things feel easy or exciting.

Love is listening when you’re tired and still choosing to understand.

It’s holding space for someone’s pain even when you have your own.

It’s forgiving when you’re hurt, not because the pain didn’t matter, but because the connection mattered more.

Real love stays when the attraction fluctuates.

It stays through stress, boredom, disagreement, and hardship.

It doesn’t run the moment things get uncomfortable.

Anyone can want a body.

But love requires caring for a heart.

Love means choosing honesty over convenience.

Respect over control.

Loyalty over temptation.

🌱 Love is built in quiet moments — in daily effort, mutual respect, shared values, and emotional safety.

It is proven not by intensity, but by consistency.

Sex may bring closeness for a moment.

But love creates safety, trust, and a place to rest — for a lifetime.

That kind of love is not common.

It is cultivated.

WHAT KIND OF MAN DO YOU WANT

If you ask me, "What kind of man do you want?" I won't say tall...I won't say rich... I won't say perfect. I'll say, A man who protects my heart. Who makes me feel chosen, every single day. Who never lets silence feel like punishment. Who never makes me doubt my worth. Who never becomes the reason behind my tears. That's it. Not luxury.. Not perfection. Just kindness.Just safety. Just love that feels like home.

He doesn't need a title, a degree, or a bank account. He just needs to be genuine, to be present, and to care. He needs to understand that my heart is fragile, that my trust is earned, and that my love is a gift. He needs to be the one I turn to, the one I lean on, and the one I feel safe with. No grand gestures, no over-the-top declarations. Just a quiet, steady love that says, "I've got you." That's the man I want. The one who sees me, hears me, and loves me for exactly who I am.

It's not about being needy or dependent; it's about being valued and cherished. It's about feeling like I'm home, like I'm exactly where I'm meant to be. It's about having someone who knows me, flaws and all, and still chooses me, still loves me, and still wants me. That's the kind of love that makes life worth living, that makes every day brighter, and that makes every moment sweeter.

THIRUPAVAI 13TH DAY

THIRUPAVAI 13TH PAASURAM

" PULLIN VAAI KEENDANAI"

SPIRTUAL DISCIPLINE 

BATHE IN ICE COLD WATER....

The Pasuram highlights the importance of seeking Acharyan's company and purifying one's body and mind by reciting God's names and contemplating their virtues ¹.The outer meaning of this Pasuram describes Krishna's glorious deeds, such as breaking the beak of Bakasura and killing Ravana, while the inner meaning emphasizes the qualities of an Acharyan and the need for students to seek their guidance. The Acharyan is described as a great personality who has conquered his senses and weaknesses through deep knowledge.

The Pasuram encourages the student to discard laziness, bathe in ice-cold water, and recite God's names to attain spiritual growth. By doing so, the student can seek the Acharyan's company and strive for self-improvement. This Thiruppavai Pasuram conveys the significance of devotion, spiritual discipline, and the Guru-Shishya parampara in the Sri Vaishnavism tradition.

THIRUPAVAI 12TH PAASURAM.

THIRUPAVAI 12TH PAASURAM. 

KANAITHILAM KATRERUMAI

It emphasizes the importance of devotion and surrender to the Lord.Andal awakens the sister of one cowherd boy who is ever engaged in the service to Kṛṣṇa similar to Lakshmana to Sri Rama. Description of Lord Krishna's beauty. Importance of surrender:The Pasuram highlights the significance of surrendering oneself to the Lord and seeking His refuge.The Pasuram conveys the joy and bliss of being a devotee of the Lord.

POOJA WITH DHAVANAM/MARIKOLUNDU/MARIKOZHUNDU.

THIRUPPAVAI DAY 11

THIRUPPAVAI PASURAM 11 KATTRU KARAVAI 

The 11th pasuram of Thiruppavai highlights the significance of collective prayer/congregational prayer. It cultivate a deeper connection with the divine and with each other.This sacred verse emphasizes the importance of coming together to worship and seek divine blessings. The significance of collective prayer lies in its ability to bring people together, fostering a sense of community and spiritual growth. As the pasuram suggests, when we unite in prayer, our individual struggles and challenges can be overcome, leading to a more harmonious and peaceful life.

THIRUPAVAI DAY 10

THIRUPPAVAI 1OTH PAASURAM

"Nottru Suvarkkam"

Goda Devi tells people to renounce their laziness and pride or ahamkara in order to possess God's companionship and His everlasting blessings.The companionship with God is the real heaven for any person. One should seek this kind of heavenly pleasure.The "Parai" referred to in this paasuram and all other paasurams is the gift of moksha or the companionship of God. God will bestow his grace and allow the devotee to reach his abode for staying in his company with no further births to him because of the sincere devotion and noble qualities of that devotee.

THIRUPPAVAI 09

Tiruppavai 09

Andal next wakes up her cousin. (Supportive of the spiritual quest to serve Krishna and his devotees. 

The cousin is sleeping in a mansion of defect-free gems (a treasure which is a wealth of wisdom of our scriptures — the vedas). She is peacefully asleep, with a certainty of reaching Krishna.

The mansion is lit with lamps all around. (Gita, Upanishad and Puranas which explain the esoteric meanings of the scriptures.) 

And wafting with the smell of incense. (the sincere practice of daily duties as ordained, and Vairagya — a dispassionate view of life’s joyous and challenging moments.)

Despite many calls, the girl does not respond. 

Andal then asks her aunt*  “Please wake her up. Is she deaf, dumb or blind?”

The aunt says, you try reciting the many names of the Lord. She may respond. 

Andal says, we have already recited the names of Maayavi, Madhava, and Vaikunthan and a thousand names, but she doesn’t budge. 

Andal asks her aunt to unlock of the bejeweled door. (The door represents the ego — attachment to the body) 

Once the Acharyas gives them the upadesha (spiritual teaching) —the key to the door, the student becomes deaf (to others blaming them), dumb (to criticism from others) and blind (in seeing the faults of others).

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CHARACTER

Vidya dadati vinayam,

Vinaya dadati paatrataam,

paatratva dhanamaapnoti,

dhanaat dharmam tatatsukham.

Education gives Humility,

Humility gives Character,

from character one gets wealth,

from wealth one gets righteousness,

in righteousness there is joy.

This shloka is part of the ancient Indian text, the Hitopadesha, which was composed by Narayan Pandit. The core message is that true education or knowledge is a holistic process that leads to a virtuous and fulfilling life.

TIRUPPAVAI 8

Tiruppavai 08

To remove darkness, we light a lamp. This lamp removes darkness and also spreads its aura of divinity around it. The oil that fuels it is devotion. 

Andal is determined to make everyone realise the Supreme:  “O learned girl, wake up and open your eyes. The beautiful eastern sky is lightening up the horizon. Even the buffaloes have left to graze the early morning grass, wet with dew.

“We have made the other gopikas to wait so that you can join us all in the austerities. And you know why we insist that you join us?! You are an enthusiastic girl. It is only proper that we all complete all austerities with wholehearted zeal. It is a festive occasion. We need you to inspire us. Get up and join us. 

“Krishna has reached Mathura. He has killed the rogue elephant  Kuvalayapeeda and also eliminated the wrestlers' challenge with speed and alacrity.  He has come to Mathura to kill Kamsa. He’s a cowherd. Now he has proved to the world that he is the Supreme, the lord of lords.

“We have to go and worship him. Surrender to him. We will plead with him to ignore our sins born out of desire.  Let’s submit ourselves to all scrutiny and wait for his blessings. He’s generous.  He will call us closer and accept us with joy!”

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TIRUPPAVAI DAY 7

Tiruppavai 07

Andal next wakes up another devotee who is learned in the scriptures and is a devotee of Krishna.

“O deluded girl! Don’t you hear the bharadwaja birds chirping all  around? It’s dawn. Don’t you hear the churning sound of curd made by the  other gopikas? Don’t you hear their auspicious jingling sound of their  necklaces and bangles, in sync with the movement?

“How can you continue to sleep? — You are endowed with a lustrous  countenance due to your deep learning resulting in bhakti .  You should  join us and converse with us for mutual benefit. We can also sing the  glory of Narayana (the primordial cause of creation). For the Margasira  month, Narayana, is worshipped as Kesava. Please come and share with us  your wealth of wisdom.”

Krishna for today

THIRUPAVAI DAY 6

Tiruppavai 06

In  another ten verses, Andal wakes up devotees of Krishna to participate in  the austerities for the rains. It is said that something good, like the  joy of experiencing Krishna, should not be enjoyed alone - it should be  shared and enjoyed with many.

The first Gopi is very young and a novice in devotion to Krishna. Andal slowly tells her to wake up.

“O’ Gopi, get up! Don’t you hear the birds chirping? Don’t you hear  the sound of the conch from the temple? Don’t you hear the slow chanting  of ‘Hari, Hari’ by the many yogis and ascetics? You have to make an  effort to experience Krishna anubhava. He is an embodiment of Rasa.”

Andal gently tells the young Gopi about the Lord’s different  manifestations as Param (the primordial cause of creation), Vyuham (his  four forms as Vasudeva, Sankarshana, Pradyumba and Aniruddha in the  cosmic ocean), Vibhavam (his avatars on the earth as Rama, Krishna  etc.,), Antaryami (his presence in every soul) and Archavatara (his  worship as deities in various temples).

Andal expands on the Krishna avatar with Putana samhara and  Shakatasura vadha. She says Krishna’s deeds are atimanushyam - super  human. But still, even Arjuna, a close friend of Krishna had to be shown  the Vishwaroopa.

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THIRUPAVAI DAY 5

Tiruppavai 05

The Mayavi.

Everyone has a doubt. 

Does God talk to us? Does he mingle with us like normal folk? Can he sit amongst us to chat and have a conversation with us? Will he play with us? He answered all this with his avatar as Krishna - pure Joy. He also restores dharma. 

Andal calls Krishna as Maayavi. She elaborates the power of his Maya. He jumps out of a pillar as Narasimha, goes to Mahabali as Vamana and transforms into Thrivikrama, and now incarnates as Krishna, living amongst the cowherds.

That’s the wonderful power of Maya. He leaves his comfy snake-bed in Ksheerasagara and chooses Mathura as his home. It is here that Krishna does wonders — he played with everyone in the banks of the Yamuna. When the scriptures were searching for the Supreme, he enriched them with complete Brahmanubhava (the experience with the divine).

He chose to be with the cowherds and became a leading light of that community. The gopikas were overjoyed and celebrated Krishna for having chosen to be with them all. Above all, he allowed himself to be tied to a grinding mortar by his mother, Yashoda — showing that he can be won over by love. 

Now Andal tells the young gopikas about the ways to worship Krishna. She stresses primarily on purity of the mind. She says Krishna is here, as the antaryami. Where you are. A place which is pure and clean is where god resides. We need not go anywhere in search of him. The gopikas do not know how to string a garland. They just collect different flowers from the plants and offer it gently at his feet. 

Andal says one can sing his glories folding their hands (Anjali) and thinking about him in the mind. When the prayer is sincere, all their sins in the past, present and future will be erased without a trace like dust on fire. 

HEAL AND RISE

Be brave enough to heal, even when it hurts. Healing isn’t easy, it’s messy, painful, and uncomfortable. But staying broken is far worse.

Pain doesn’t go away when ignored. It seeps into everything, draining your joy, and leaving you stuck in survival mode. Healing means facing that pain, letting yourself feel, and choosing to grow through it.

You don’t have to have all the answers right now. Just don’t give up on yourself. You deserve to feel whole again. 

One day, you’ll look back and realize the pain was temporary, but the strength you gained is forever.

Staying broken was never an option. You were always meant to heal. You were always meant to rise.

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HAPPINESS

Happiness Is An Inner State Of Being 

We were always taught that our happiness is dependent on something or someone. When we achieve our goal or when we make people happy then we will be happy. Our focus therefore was always to make others happy, because we thought - only when they are happy, will we be happy. Very often we could be under stress, angry or in pain, but we try to make others happy. Let us remember we can take care of family and friends, do everything for them physically, but emotionally we will only be radiating pain, because we are in pain. To give happiness to them, we have to be happy within. 

Let’s clean our thoughts, clear our emotional blockages and create a happy state of inner being, because only then can we radiate happiness to others. It’s not – we will be happy, when they are happy; truth is – if we are happy then we will give happiness to them. 

Let’s check how many times today we say I will be happy when ….. and change it to I am happy while …. Work towards creating your own happiness independent of the outcome.

THIRUPPAVAI DAY 4

Tiruppavai 04

Andal assures the children that their vow will bring rains.  She decides to ensure that the rains pour in time. 

 

Varuna is the rain god. Andal prays to him. She instructs him not to hold back on the rains. She also describes the process of distributing the rain without discrimination. 

“O’ Lord! Be liberal with the rains. You should go deep down the sea and  draw as much of water as you can. Then with a thundering sound, you should go up the sky slowly."  

“O’ Lord! You should become as dark as the primordial cause of the world, Lord Padmanabha* of broad shoulders — shining like the divine discus Sudarshana and roaring thunderously like the divine conch Paanchajanya."

 “Then you can rain water on the earth like the powerful Sharnga (bow) releases a shower of arrows."

“When you help little girls like us by showering the much needed rains, it will be your service to the Supreme one and world alike. 

So with full of happiness, let the rains pour."

(The lotus which Andal holds suggests Lord Padmanabha.)

TIRUPPAVAI DAY 3

Tiruppava Day 3

Andal leads the way to the sacred bath, as a part of their austerities, singing the glory of Trivikrama. The one who conquered the three worlds in just two strides, with the third step on Mahabali’s head. She calls him Uthama  (Who can be so benevolent, to claim his own property in alms!) 

She begins to list out the benefits of completing these austerities. 

This vow will help our land receive copious rains thrice a month in equal intervals, bringing in prosperity, bountiful crops* of red paddy etc.,

The fish will jump about amidst tall stalks of large red paddy crops. 

The bees hovering over the flowers will drink honey and fall asleep amidst the petals.  

The generous cows, will yield milk profusely by a mere touch on their udders.  

Thus, the whole country will be filled with good wealth and prosperity which will be unhindered.”

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(Notes for the seeker: )  

Rains three times a month:  attaining fruits of the austerities - When the disciple surrenders (Saranagathi) to the Supreme, initiated by the Acharya.

The strong fish jumping with joy in the paddy fields:  Happy Acharyas , who recognize that their efforts have borne fruit .

Narayana is the bee who sleeps in our heart (Hrdaya Kamalam) without worry, like a content farmer who has realized abundant crops. His work through his AchAryAs has been successful.  

Generous cows : The most generous Acharyas, who just need a small nudge to explain any doubt in detail, without expecting anything in return.  

 *(In olden times, it was the practice of the farmers sing ‘Raghu Rama’ while transplanting paddy seedlings)

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THIRUPAVAI DAY 2

On the second day of Margazhi, Thiruppavai devotees recite the second pasuram, which shifts the focus from invitation to instruction, guiding individuals to set aside worldly desires and focus on spiritual growth. This pasuram emphasizes the importance of discipline and intention, gently nudging devotees to prioritize clarity over comfort'.

The second pasuram of Thiruppavai begins with "Vaiyattu Vazhvirgal! Namum Nam Pavai" and is accompanied by the Thiruvempavai pasuram "Paasam Param Jothikku Anbaai Iraappagal" which talks about the importance of rising early for spiritual activities.

Some people believe that reciting Thiruppavai pasurams during the early morning hours, particularly during Brahma Muhurta, brings unique benefits and spiritual growth. The recitation is believed to fulfill devotees' wishes and bring them closer to the divine.

WISH YOU ALL A HAPPY DHANUMASAM

WISH YOU ALL A HAPPY DHANUMASAM

The month of DHANUMASAM, my most favourite pooja of Lord Krishna.I used to say to my achan that I will not worship your "kalla  Krishnan", but he himself made me to do this pooja, with utmost bhakthi.This pooja is from Tamilnadu.This is not in Kerala.But i loved the theme of this pooja so started from 2007.

Margazhi serves as a bridge between Vaishnavites and Saivites. Vaishnavites sing Tiruppaavai, sung by the legendary Aandal - one of the twelve Alwars,  and the Saivites sings, Tiruvempaavai, sung by Saint  Maanickavaachakar, one of the sixtythree Nayanmars. Both these immortal hymns belong to  the  form of poetry called PAAVAI,  signifying  maiden  girls seeking divine intervention for securing worthy husband's.Pavai Nozhumbu, Gopika worshipped maa katyayani to get lord krishna as a husband. The other important occasions are Aarudra or Tiruvaadhirai, and Vaikunta Ekadashi.Love and relationship Spirituality Margazhi Nombu. Pavai Nombu is performed by women for prosperity and to get a good husband. The history of Pavai Nonbu is more than 2000 years old and is mentioned in the early Tamil scriptures.

SHREE VISHNU ROOPAYA NAMA SHIVAYA.

THIRUPAVAI DAY 1

Thiruppavai Day 1 marks the beginning of the sacred Margazhi month, a period of spiritual growth and devotion. On this day, devotees gather at temples to recite Thiruppavai and Thiruvempavai, filling the air with sacred vibrations and divine joy. The month is considered ideal for worship, particularly during the pre-dawn hours.

The first pasuram of Thiruppavai, "Maargazhi thingal madhi niraindha nannaalaal," translates to "Oh, girls with beautiful hair, it's time to bathe in the holy waters on this full moon day of Margazhi".

The pasuram is an invocation to the girls of Ayarpadi to wake up early and take a bath, marking the beginning of the 30-day fasting period. Some people think that reciting Thiruppavai brings spiritual growth and enlightenment, while others believe it's a way to connect with the divine.

AN EMPTY CHAIR

Every evening at sunset, an old man placed two chairs outside his small house—

one for himself, and one left empty.

Children playing football often wondered why he waited for someone who never came.

One day, a boy named Ethan finally asked, “Sir, who is the empty chair for?”

The old man smiled gently.

“When I was young, I went through a very difficult time. One evening, a stranger saw me, brought out a chair, and said, ‘Sit. You look tired.’ He didn’t ask my name. He didn’t expect anything. He just gave me space to breathe. That small act saved me.”

He looked at the empty chair beside him.

“So now I keep a chair ready for anyone who might need it—someone tired, lonely, or overwhelmed. If they ever walk by, I want them to know there’s a place for them.”

And people did stop.

A woman who had lost her job.

A student stressed about life.

Someone who simply needed a moment of quiet.

The old man never asked questions.

He just shared silence, warmth, and presence.

Soon, others in the neighborhood began keeping an extra chair outside their homes too.

A simple wooden chair became a symbol of compassion.

Moral:

You don’t need much to help someone.

Sometimes, the smallest space you create for others becomes the biggest kindness they receive.

BALANCE

This simple teaching carries a powerful truth.

Most of the suffering in life doesn’t come from the things themselves, but from our relationship with them. Too much of anything — even something good — becomes harmful.

Power becomes poison when it turns into control.

Comfort becomes poison when it turns into laziness.

Food becomes poison when it turns into indulgence.

Ego becomes poison when it blinds you to truth.

Ambition becomes poison when it destroys your peace.

Vanity becomes poison when you forget humility.

Fear becomes poison when it stops your growth.

Anger becomes poison when you hold it too long.

Buddhism teaches the Middle Way — balance in all things.

Not too much, not too little.

Not suppressing, not overindulging.

Just the right measure that keeps the mind steady, the heart open, and life in harmony.

Poison is not always a substance.

Sometimes it is a habit, an attachment, or a mindset.

Wisdom is knowing when enough is enough.

Balance is the real cure.

WOMAN

 Woman should support.

YOU CAN ALWAYS TELL WHO THE STRONG WOMEN ARE.THEY ARE THE ONES YOU SEE BUILDING ONE ANOTHER UP INSTEAD OF TEARING EACH OTHER DOWN.

FRIENDSHIP

True friendship exists between genders.There should be honesty and integrity in it. That's a strong statement! I know what real friendship means and i am not afraid to show it. This passion and honesty is what my true friends love and admire about me.

No matter what the destiny play a game in a friendship or may it go smart and clever.If the bond is strong and never needs to tie a band.The friends are truly forever.It goes with the days more stronger than any knot of ties.A Real Hearty and emotional friendship never dies.

When you ask God for a gift, be thankful if he sends, not diamonds, pearls, or riches,

but the love of real true friends.

Among life's precious jewels, genuine and rare,

The one that we call Friendship worth beyond compare. Friendship is like a golden thread that binds two hearts a feeling that keeps growing even when we are far apart no matter where we are.

 

you can't see me, you can't hear me

But I am some where close to you

want to know Who I amI,  am not the angle nor the Ambassador of GOD. I am the one true to my self and true to my LORD........

Dedication this to all my male friends.

 

ETERNAL DHARMA

Swami Chinmayanandaji a renowned saint, was met by a a 'secular' minded journalist, who generally bent upon showing Hinduism in poor light, vis a vis other religions, asked a question to Swamiji:
Q: Who is the founder of Islam?
A: Prophet Mohammad.
Q: Who is the founder of Christianity?
A: Jesus Christ.
Q: Who is the founder of Hinduism?

Thinking that Swamiji has been trapped in a ticklish situation with no answer,
the lady journalist enthusuastically proceeded further:
Yes. There is no
founder and hence, Hinduism is not a religion or Dharma at all.
A: Then, Swamiji said: You are right.
Hinduism is not a religion.
It is a Science.

She did not understand that.
Now it was turn of Swamiji to put some questions to journalist lady.
Q: Who is the founder of Physics?
Ans: No one person.
Who is the founder of Chemistry?
Ans: No one person.
Who is the founder of Biology?
Ans: No single person.
Many many persons, from time to time, contributed to the wealth of knowledge of any Science.
Swamiji continued:
Hindu Dharma is a Science, developed
over the centuries, contributed by
saints and sages for giving right
direction to the society.
Islam has only one book -Quran.
Christianity has only one book -Bible.
But for Hinduism, I can take you to a library and show you hundreds of books.
Hence, Hinduism is a scientific religion- called Sanatana Dharma . Eternal Dharma.

 

SPIRTUAL WOMAN

(The Priestess, The Goddess, The Medicine Woman)

Ladies… If you love like a storm and feel like a prayer… this post is about you.

Most men have never loved a spiritual woman…

because a woman like this is not built for ordinary love.

She is not a “party girl.”

She is not a convenience.

She is not weekend entertainment.

She is not looking for distraction.

She is a priestess.

A goddess.

A medicine woman.

A queen with ancient memory in her bones.

Most of her life, she has been told she is too much…

when in truth, she was simply too deep for shallow men.

She feels more.

She sees deeper.

She loves harder.

She breaks open wider.

She carries intuition like a sword

and softness like holy water.

A woman like this is not wired for shallow connection.

Her soul demands truth.

Her body demands presence.

Her heart demands depth.

Her spirit demands a man who has met himself.

She is not for the faint-hearted.

She is for the man whose masculinity is not performance…

but presence.

❤️‍🔥 Men Who Try To Love Her Casually Will Break Themselves Against Her Depth

A spiritual woman is not impressed by status.

Or flash.

Or ego.

Or bravado.

Or surface-level charm.

She is not seduced by what you say.

She is seduced by what you embody.

Your consistency.

Your integrity.

Your emotional clarity.

Your grounded masculine energy.

She is a woman who reads energy like scripture.

Your words don’t matter if your nervous system doesn’t match them.

She will feel your insecurity.

She will sense your hesitation.

She will hear the tremors in your truth.

You cannot deceive a woman who sees with her soul.

❤️‍🔥 What She Brings Into a Man’s Life Is Not Of This World

A spiritual woman amplifies everything she touches.

When she loves a man…

his confidence expands

his purpose sharpens

his creativity ignites

his intuition strengthens

his emotional world softens

his spiritual path deepens

She becomes the mirror that shows him his potential.

She becomes the muse that awakens his fire.

She becomes the sanctuary where his soul finally rests.

Even the strongest priestess gets tired of holding everything alone.

When she finally feels protected instead of burdened…

she becomes a force that can transform a man’s entire life.

She brings him closer to God.

Closer to himself.

Closer to the man he was born to be.

But this level of feminine power

requires a man who can hold the intensity.

❤️‍🔥 To Love a Spiritual Woman, You Must Become a Warrior-King

She does not want a boy.

She does not want a coward.

She does not want a man who is intimidated by emotion or depth.

She wants a man who is rooted.

A man who knows who he is.

A man whose presence can steady her storms…

without trying to silence them.

She needs a man strong enough to protect her in the physical realm…

so she can do her sacred work in the spiritual realm.

She is a healer.

You are her guardrail.

She is magic.

You are the grounding force that lets her fly without burning.

She is the oracle.

You are the warrior who stands watch while she opens portals inside herself.

She protects you with intuition, vision, emotional intelligence, and spiritual sight.

You protect her with stability, direction, masculine containment, and unwavering presence.

Together you become the balance.

The Priestess and the King.

❤️‍🔥 How To Love a Woman Like This

Hold her with presence.

Not pressure.

Match her depth.

Not her chaos.

Listen to her intuition.

Not your ego.

Stand in your truth.

Not your fear.

Honor her softness.

Not her wounds.

Protect her body.

And she will protect your soul.

When she cries… do not fix her.

Hold her.

When she doubts… do not shrink.

Stand steady.

When she opens… do not flinch.

Receive her.

When she loves… do not run.

Meet her.

She will test your depth.

She will test your strength.

She will test your emotional capacity.

Not to tear you down…

but to see if she can surrender into you.

❤️‍🔥 And If You Can Hold Her…

She Will Devote Herself To You

A spiritual woman gives a man her spaciousness.

Her intuition.

Her softness.

Her nurturing.

Her loyalty.

Her trust.

Her sacred devotion.

She will speak life into your dreams.

She will pray over your vision.

She will see the man you are becoming

and pull that version of you forward.

When she feels safe…

her body softens…

her breath slows…

her walls fall away…

and she lets you see the woman beneath the armor.

She becomes the feminine force

that awakens the King inside you.

This is the kind of woman who will make you rise.

Not because she demands it…

but because her presence calls it forth.

If you can meet the depths inside her…

you will never know a more devoted love.

❤️‍🔥 So To the Men Reading This…

If you ever find a woman like this…

a spiritual woman

a priestess

a goddess

a medicine woman

a queen…

Do not play with her.

Do not take her for granted.

Do not treat her like the women who came before her.

Love her with your whole chest.

Stand in your power.

Protect her.

Lead with integrity.

Match her devotion.

And she will give you a love

that feels like coming home to your own soul.

— Eric Graham 🙏❤️‍🔥

What quality do you believe is most essential in a man…

to hold a woman like this with strength and reverence?

BHAGAVADGEETA FREE THERAPIST