TRIBUTE TO KALATHAPASVI K.VISWANATH

సృష్టిలో ఏ కులం గొప్పది కాదు, అన్ని కులాలు సమానమే  అంటూ.,  ఆదిశంకరాచార్య గారి "శంకర విజయాన్ని" స్పూర్తిగా తీసుకొని అందులోని ఆదిశంకరులకి ఎదురువచ్చిన వెనుకపడ్డ కులస్తుడిలో కూడా దేవుడిని చూడమంటూ తెలిపిన వైనాన్ని అద్వితీయం. 

ఒక వ్యక్తి మనసు పరాయివ్యక్తి సొంతమైనప్పుడు ఆ యువతిలో ఆది పరాశక్తిని చూపిన వైనం ఏమని వర్ణించగలం .,

పుట్టుకతో కులాలు కాదు వాళ్ళ వాళ్ళ కర్మలను బట్టి వర్ణాలు ఏర్పడ్డాయి అంటూ భగవద్గీత లోని 

“చాతుర్వర్ణం మయాసృష్టం గుణ కర్మ విభాగచ” అనే స్లొకంతో కులాలను ప్రశ్నించిన మహోన్నత చిత్రం 

చక్కని సాహిత్యంతో కూడుకున్న సంగీత సాగరం వంటి చిత్రం  "సప్తపది".,

ఇటువంటి చిత్రాన్నినిర్మించిన విశ్వనాథ్ గారికి పాదాభివందనం 

చిత్రం చూస్తున్నంతసేపు ఒక పవిత్ర దేవాలయంలో ఉన్నమనే భావన మనసులో సృష్టించిన విశ్వనథ్ గారికి మనమందరం ఎంతో రుణపడిఉన్నమో

TODAY CHATRAPATHI SHIVAJI JAYANTHI 19/02/2026

“Freedom is not a gift. It is a right earned by courage, sacrifice, and unwavering resolve.”

Celebrating Chatrapathi Shivaji Jayanthi, honoring the legacy of the great warrior king who stood for courage, justice & good governance. His vision, bravery & leadership continue to inspire generations to uphold strength, unity & self-respect. Let us remember his timeless values and fearless spirit. ⚔️🇮🇳🌟

Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj was not just a warrior king — he was the soul of Swarajya. In an age of oppression, he stood like a flame that could not be extinguished, building an empire on courage, justice, and respect for his people. His life reminds us that true freedom is never given easily; it is achieved through sacrifice, fearless leadership, and unbreakable determination.

Today, we bow to the legend who taught India how to stand tall with self-respect and pride. His ideals continue to inspire generations to choose courage over fear and duty over comfort.

HURT

How often do we do exactly this in our lives?

Someone hurts us, betrays us, abandons us, disrespects us — and instead of tending to the wound, we chase the person.

We want answers.

Closure.

Apologies.

Recognition.

Validation that we were right and they were wrong.

But while we chase… the poison spreads.

Rumination deepens pain.

Replaying the moment reopens the wound.

Seeking explanations from someone who harmed you keeps you tied to the harm.

The mind believes healing will come from understanding why.

But often, there is no answer that will soothe the heart.

Because the injury was not logical.

It was human.

Buddhist wisdom is practical:

When you are poisoned, treat the poison first.

Your peace does not depend on their explanation.

Your closure does not depend on their apology.

Your healing does not depend on their awareness.

It depends on your turning inward with compassion.

Sometimes people hurt because they are unconscious.

Sometimes because they are afraid.

Sometimes because they lack the capacity you hoped they had.

Sometimes for no clear reason at all.

Chasing the snake keeps you in the field of danger.

Healing moves you out of it.

So instead of asking:

“Why did they do this to me?”

Ask:

“What does my heart need now?”

“What boundary protects me?”

“What lesson frees me?”

“What care heals me?”

This is not denial.

It is wisdom.

You are not excusing the bite.

You are refusing to keep the venom alive inside you.

Some wounds close without answers.

Some peace arrives without justice.

Some freedom comes without apology.

The Buddha’s teaching is simple and fierce:

Do not spend your life chasing snakes.

Remove the poison.

Tend the wound.

Walk away whole.

FAITH

Because goodness is not proven By belief....

It is proven

By behavior.

Faith that does not soften the heart

Has lost its purpose.

Worship that does not create kindness

Has lost its meaning.

Spirituality that does not reduce harm

Has become illusion.

This is not about rejecting religion.

Many believers live with profound compassion, service, and humility.

But belief without humanity

Is empty structure.

In Buddhist wisdom, what matters is intention and action —

Not identity.

A pure heart matters more than ideology.

Compassion matters more than affiliation.

Kindness matters more than labels.

You can believe and be kind.

You can not believe and be kind.

And in the end —

Kindness is what makes someone truly spiritual.

🌿 Don’t hide behind belief.

🌿 Don’t judge through doctrine.

🌿 Don’t harm in the name of faith.

Because the world does not need

More religious identity.

It needs more humane behavior.

🪷 Let belief be personal.

🪷 Let compassion be universal.

🪷 Let humanity be your highest path.

KINDNESS

𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲.

Not everyone has someone to hold, a message waiting,

or a love that stayed.

Some are grieving a partner,

some are learning to live without someone they loved deeply,

and some are simply getting through a day that reminds them of what’s missing.

So if you can’t give love today,

give kindness.

A smile.

A pause.

A moment of understanding.

It doesn’t need labels or reasons.

And for someone who feels unseen, it might be the only warmth they receive.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲

Because kindness doesn’t need a relationship status.

It doesn’t need roses or reasons.

Sometimes, it is the love.

Let your kindness be your mark,

it might be the very thing that reminds someone they still matter..

01/02/2026 LALITHA JAYANTHI

Maasi Magam. Sree Maatha Lalitha jayanthi.

Goddess Lalita is one of the most graceful, and powerful Goddess. She is embodiment of love, prosperity, wisdom and liberation.

Sri Chakra Raja nilaya Srimath Tripura Sundari.🙏🙏

"Lalitha Jayanthi" - the day when Lalithambika appeared from the Chidagnikundam.

Sree-mata shree maha-ragyni sreemat sinha-saneshvaree

Chidagni-kunda sambhuta deva-karya samudyata 

Salutations to the Divine Mother, who is the Mother of all. She is the Great Empress of the whole Universe, enthroned on the lion's back.Devi came out of the fire of Pure knowledge and consciousness to promote the cause of divine forces (devas).

MURUGAN

My ishtadeva has always been Murugan. Let me share his birth..

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮 𝗰𝗿𝗮𝗱𝗹𝗲. 𝗜𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗲.

Not the destructive kind.

The conscious kind.

According to the 𝗦𝗸𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗮 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗮, the universe had reached a breaking point. The demon Taraka had grown arrogant through a boon. He could not be killed by any god, any weapon, or any force already in existence.

Classic problem.

When ego becomes untouchable, only a higher intelligence can intervene.

That intelligence emerged from 𝗟𝗼𝗿𝗱 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝘃𝗮 himself.

Shiva opened his third eye and released six blazing sparks of pure consciousness. Not babies. Not bodies. Raw awareness. So intense that no being could hold them.

Agni tried and failed.

Vayu tried and panicked.

Everyone realised divinity is easy to worship, but difficult to carry.

Finally, the sparks were placed in the River Ganga. Even she could not hold them for long and carried them gently to a serene lotus-filled lake known as Saravana Poigai.

There, the miracle happened.

Each spark transformed into a radiant infant, resting on a lotus. Six babies. Six directions. Six expressions of divine intelligence.

They were discovered by the Krittikas, the celestial sisters we now know as the Pleiades stars. They nurtured the children with love, devotion, and maternal warmth. That is how Murugan earned the name Kartikeya.

Then came 𝗚𝗼𝗱𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶.

When Parvati saw the six infants, she did what only a mother could do. She embraced them all at once. And in that embrace, the six became one.

One child.

Six faces.

Twelve arms.

Thus was born 𝗟𝗼𝗿𝗱 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻, also known as Arumugam, Shanmukha, Saravanabhava, Skanda, Subramaniam.

Each face represents a dimension of wisdom.

Each arm symbolises action guided by awareness.

And if you are wondering why Murugan looks permanently youthful, that is because pure awareness does not age. Only our worries do.

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹 𝗡𝗮𝗱𝘂 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱𝘀 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗶𝘁𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁

Murugan is not a distant god in Tamil culture.

He is family.

The Tamil Sangam texts, the Tirumurugatrupadai, and later Shaiva traditions celebrate Murugan not as an abstract deity, but as a living presence. A friend. A guide. A stern teacher when required.

Nowhere is this relationship more alive than in the 𝗔𝗿𝘂𝗽𝗮𝗱𝗮𝗶 𝗩𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘂, the six sacred abodes of Murugan. These are not random temples. They are milestones in Murugan’s divine journey.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗿𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗸𝘂𝗻𝗿𝗮𝗺 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗧𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲

Here, Murugan marries Deivanai after defeating Surapadman. It symbolises mastery over ego before entering worldly life.

𝗧𝗶𝗿𝘂𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗧𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲

Located by the sea, this is where Murugan wages war against darkness and defeats Surapadman. Waves crash endlessly, reminding us that discipline must be constant.

𝗣𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗶 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗧𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲

Murugan appears as a renunciate. The child becomes the teacher. Knowledge without humility, he reminds us, is just noise.

𝗦𝘄𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗶 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗧𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲

Here, Murugan teaches the meaning of the Pranava mantra to Shiva himself. Yes, the student becomes the guru. Spiritual maturity has no age requirement.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗶 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗧𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲

This abode represents peace. After victory comes stillness. After striving comes silence.

𝗣𝗮𝘇𝗵𝗮𝗺𝘂𝗱𝗶𝗿𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗮𝗶 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗧𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲

Set amidst lush forests, this is Murugan as the eternal companion. Nature, devotion, and simplicity meet here.

Six abodes.

One message.

Life moves through effort, battle, humility, wisdom, peace, and harmony.

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗮𝗻 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝘀𝗼 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗽𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗮𝘆

Murugan is not worshipped because he killed a demon long ago.

He is worshipped because he continues to kill the Tarakas within us.

The arrogance that thinks it knows everything.

The pride that refuses to bow.

The ignorance that mistakes noise for wisdom.

And the Vel.

Ah, the Vel.

Not a weapon of violence, but of clarity.

Sharp enough to cut illusion.

Precise enough to point inward.

Murugan does not ask for blind belief.

He asks for courage, discipline, and self-honesty.

Which explains why devotees walk barefoot, carry kavadis, climb hills, and chant endlessly.

Because transformation has never been comfortable.

And perhaps that is why Murugan remains eternally young and handsome.

Because those who walk the inner path must always be willing to begin again.

Vel Vel 🙏

Prem Ananth Ramachandran 

SECRET ABOUT

Dear Woman,

I want to share a deep secret about men that many don’t talk about openly, but it’s a truth you deserve to know.

Men do change. However, the hard reality is that sometimes, you’re just not the woman he wants to change for. It’s not a reflection of your worth or value; it’s about alignment, timing, and his own sense of purpose.

You see, men are inherently driven by purpose. Their actions, their growth, and even their relationships are often deeply tied to what they feel brings meaning to their lives. If a man sees your relationship as part of his larger purpose, he will make the effort to evolve and grow. But if that connection is missing for him, no amount of love, care, or sacrifice from your side can compel him to change.

Men are wired differently. While women often lead with emotional depth and connection, men seek a balance between connection and ambition. They want a woman who aligns with their vision of life, someone who supports their dreams but also inspires them to be better. However, this doesn't mean you have to mold yourself to fit into his vision.

Dear woman, be the woman who chooses herself first. Trust yourself. Work on yourself. Build your confidence, nurture your ambitions, and never forget that your growth is your responsibility—not his reward. A man who truly values you will see your light and will want to walk beside you, not shape you into something you’re not.

But let me remind you of one crucial thing: you don’t work on yourself to change him or to make him stay. You work on yourself because your growth, healing, and happiness are worth it, no matter who stands by your side. Your journey should always be rooted in self-love, not the hope of being chosen by someone else.

The right man will see the beauty in your strength and the power in your vulnerability. He will not ask you to change who you are to fit his world. Instead, he will evolve alongside you, recognizing the blessing of having a woman who is both soft and strong, nurturing and ambitious.

When a man truly values a woman, he doesn’t need to be told to change. He doesn’t need ultimatums or pressure. His desire to grow comes naturally because he understands that being with her is a privilege, not a right.

At the same time, recognize that not every man is meant to stay. Some are lessons, and their role in your life is to show you what you truly deserve. Don’t hold onto someone who is unwilling to see your worth. Letting go is not failure—it’s strength.

Work on becoming the best version of yourself, not because you’re trying to prove your worth to a man, but because you owe it to yourself. Surround yourself with love, positivity, and people who uplift you. The woman you are becoming will naturally attract the kind of man who values and cherishes all that you are.

So, dear woman, trust your journey. Trust that your growth is a gift, and your healing is your power. Love yourself so deeply that you no longer question whether you are enough. Because the truth is, you are more than enough—you are everything.

And when you meet the right man, he will see that too.

Courtesy: Abhikesh

TRIBUTE TO SAVITA AMBEDKAR

Savita Ambedkar’s story is known to very few people, but for those who know it, she stands as a symbol of sacrifice, service, and courage.

She was born into a Brahmin family and became a doctor at a time when it was rare and remarkable for women to enter the medical profession. Her original name was Dr. Sharda Kabir. When she met Dr. B. R. Ambedkar, Babasaheb’s health was already in a fragile condition. He was suffering from diabetes, high blood pressure, and several other complications. His life was a constant struggle between pain and relentless work for the nation.

Dr. Sharda Kabir was treating him. Gradually, she began to see not just a patient, but a tired, lonely man fighting for his country and its people.

In 1948, she married Babasaheb, and after marriage, she came to be known as Savita Ambedkar.

This is where her real journey began.

Savita ji dedicated her entire life to Babasaheb’s health, his work, and his mission. Babasaheb would write through the nights — working on the Constitution, books, and speeches. Savita ji stayed awake with him. She personally managed his medicines, diet, and rest. Without her constant care, it is possible that Babasaheb might not have been able to complete such monumental work.

Babasaheb himself once said:

“Savita added eight years to my life.”

Imagine — without those eight years, perhaps India’s Constitution, his writings, and his social mission might have remained incomplete.

But the story does not end here.

After Babasaheb’s passing, Savita Ambedkar had to endure many allegations. People misunderstood her, accused her, and distanced her. The woman who had devoted her entire life to service was left alone by society.

Yet, she never turned away from Babasaheb’s mission. She kept his memories, his writings, and his thoughts alive. She narrated her side of the story not with anger, but with calm dignity.

Savita Ambedkar teaches us an important lesson:

Sometimes, history forgets those who work silently behind the scenes to support great individuals.

But without them, that greatness would never have been possible.

She was not just Babasaheb’s wife.

She was his strength, his nurse, his companion, and his silent warrior.

Her life reminds us that:

Service done quietly can still shape history.

HAPPY REPUBLIC DAY

🇮🇳 Republic Day Story – “The Day India Found Its Voice” 🇮🇳

On 26th January 1950, India did not just raise a flag , India stood up as a Republic.

From being ruled… to ruling ourselves.

From silence… to freedom of voice.

From struggle… to sovereignty.

Our Constitution gave every citizen equal rights, dignity, and justice. It reminded us that true independence is not only from foreign rule but from fear, injustice, and division.

Today, when the tricolor rises, it whispers:

🧡 Courage in our hearts

🤍 Peace in our actions

💚 Growth in our dreams

Let us not just celebrate this day 

Let us live its values daily.

✨ Be responsible.

✨ Be united.

✨ Be proud to be Indian.

🇮🇳 Happy Republic Day! Jai Hind! 🇮🇳

THIRUPPAVAI 30TH PAASURAM

THIRUPPAVAI 30TH PAASURAM

VANGA KADAL KADAINTHA

Reciting Thiruppavai 30 is believed to bring the reciter under the Lord's divine grace.Sincere recitation promises eternal bliss and spirituality. The pasuram imparts spiritual growth and enlightenment, making it a revered part of the Margazhi celebrations.

Thiruppavai 30, the final pasuram of the sacred Thiruppavai series, bestows eternal bliss and divine grace upon its sincere reciters. This revered Tamil hymn, composed by Andal, describes the gopis' devotion to Madhavan and Keshava and promises moksha and prosperity to those who recite it with faith.

The pasuram speaks of the gopis, adorned in devotion, who attained moksha by reaching Madhavan and Keshava. Reciting these 30 Tamil verses is believed to bring the boundless grace of the Lord, granting eternal bliss and divine service at His feet.

Some people believe that reciting Thiruppavai 30 during the Margazhi season brings immense spiritual joy and fulfillment. The pasuram's significance lies in its ability to impart spiritual growth and enlightenment, making it a revered part of the Margazhi celebrations.

THIRUPPAVAI 29TH PAASURAM

THIRUPPAVAI 29TH PAASURAM

SITRUM SIRUKÀALE VANDHU UNNAI 

Tiruppavai 29 signifies the gopis' desire for spiritual growth and self-realization through their devotion to Lord Krishna. The pasuram emphasizes the importance of surrendering one's desires and ego to attain spiritual enlightenment ¹.It  is a revered pasuram in the Sri Vaishnavite tradition, where the gopis express their deep devotion and surrender to Lord Krishna. 

It  speaks of the gopis' longing to serve Lord Krishna and their plea to him to accept their devotion. They sing, "⁴ You, we were born in the cowherd clan. We want to serve You and receive the Parai from You" Krishna accepts the gopikas’ request for eternal servitude. 

They request krishna  that they wish to put forward at his lotus feet. They requested that this sacred vow will be complete now and  they  want the assurance that it will continue in all  successive births.

THIRUPPAVAI 28TH PAASURAM

THIRUPPAVAI 28TH PAASURAM 

KARAVAIGAL PIN SENDRU

Thiruppavai 28 is a significant verse in the scripture, where Andal describes the divine beauty of Lord Krishna and the spiritual significance of worshiping Him.Andal sums it up "O’ Lord! It might appear that we were seeking worldly pleasures. Our ultimate aim is to be of eternal service to you. But we are clueless on the means to achieve it.  You are our only way. You have to fulfill our desire.  

 

“O Govinda! We are simple folks.  What learning do we have?  Every morning, we follow the cows to the forest and let them graze. When they take rest under shade of the trees, we have our bath in the Yamuna and have some simple curd rice. And with you at the centre, we eat our lunch while you play the flute.  

The verse is known for its poetic and philosophical depth.The verse expresses Andal's deep devotion and longing for Lord Krishna, highlighting the theme of divine love.It emphasizes the importance of spiritual growth and self-surrender to attain union with the divine.The verse contains philosophical insights into the nature of reality and the ultimate goal of human life.

Thiruppavai 28 remains a popular and widely recited verse among Vaishnavites, offering spiritual guidance and inspiration to seekers of truth. Its themes of divine love, spiritual growth, and philosophical insights continue to resonate with devotees and scholars alike.

THIRUPPAVAI 27TH PAASURAM

THIRUPPAVAI 27TH PAASURAM 

KOODARAI VELLUM SEER GOVINDA 

Koodarai Vellum Seer Govinda, In this pasuram, the young girls, after 26 days of vratam and devotion, joyfully ask Lord Govinda for gifts, including parai, ornaments, and clothes, and express their desire to worship their Pāvai

Thiruppavai the 27th verse of the Devotees adorn themselves with beautiful jewelry and wear new clothes, symbolizing their joy and gratitude for the blessings received.

According to tradition, akkaravadisal, a sweet dish made with rice, moong dal, and jaggery, is prepared on this day, signifying the sweetness of devotion.

The austerities near completion -

Andal exults:“O’ Govinda ! You have a graceful way of winning over your opponents, just as you humbled Indra’s rage by holding the Goverdhan mountain for seven days to protect the cowherds.  And it was he, who anointed you as Govinda. 

“Govinda!  As a reward for our austerities, we’ll adorn ourselves with  bracelets, shoulder ornaments, ear-studs, rings, anklets et al.  We will wear new clothes.  We will have food prepared using milk, and the sumptuous ghee will rise over the food and flow down our elbow."With your grace, we eulogize you. That’s the real reward. We shall be eternally united and experience infinite joy.”

Some people think that this day is an opportunity to celebrate the bond between the devotee and the divine, while others believe it's a time to seek material blessings. The tradition of drawing kolam s shaped like sarees, bangles, and jewelry on this day is also significant, symbolizing the girls' desire for beautiful adornments.

THIRUPPAVAI 26TH PAASURAM

THIRUPPAVAI 26TH PAASURAM

MAALE MANNIVANNA MARGAZHI

This 26th pasuram is a heartfelt plea to Lord Krishna, where Andal seeks His blessings to fulfill the sacred Margazhi Nombhu ¹.The poem begins with Andal invoking Lord Krishna as "Maale Manivanna," asking Him to grant her wishes for the successful completion of the Nombhu. She requests  Conchs that roar like the Panchajanyam Large drums (Parais) Devotees to sing His praise Beautiful lamps, Flags, A roofed place

Some people think that Thiruppavai 26 is not just a prayer but a guide on how to observe the Margazhi Nombhu with devotion and joy 

The significance of Thiruppavai 26 lies in its spiritual and cultural importance, as it highlights the importance of seeking divine blessings and guidance in one's spiritual journey. 

Overall, Thiruppavai 26 is a revered poem that embodies the essence of Bhakti and spiritual growth, inspiring devotees to seek Lord Krishna's divine grace.

STAY SINGLE

Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is wait. Not because you’re afraid of love, but because you’re learning how to honor your own heart. Staying single isn’t about withholding love, it’s about being patient with yourself, your healing, and the kind of peace God has been slowly teaching you to recognize.

Real love doesn’t rush you or make you question your worth. It doesn’t ask you to dim your faith or explain your softness. It feels steady. Safe. Reverent. Like something that can sit quietly beside you and still feel full. When love comes from God, it doesn’t feel like confusion or a test you have to pass. It feels like alignment. Like rest. Like home. 🤍

STORY ABOUT FRIENDSHIP

స్నేహం::

(మహాభారతం అనుశాసన పర్వంలో భీష్ముడు ఓ చిన్న కథను ధర్మరాజుకు చెప్పాడు.)

ఆ కథలో స్నేహం, కృతజ్ఞత ప్రస్తావన కనిపిస్తుంది. ఒకసారి స్నేహం ఏర్పడి ఒకరినొకరు ఆశ్రయించుకున్న తర్వాత ఎలా ఉండాలి అనేదాన్ని ఓ పిట్ట, చెట్టు కథలో చెప్పాడు భీష్మాచార్యుడు. 

పూర్వం కాశీదేశంలో ఓ చక్కని పచ్చని అడవిలో పూలు, పళ్లతో కళకళలాడుతూ ఓ పెద్దవృక్షం ఉండేది. అదే చెట్టు తొర్రలో ఏనాటి నుంచో ఓ చిలుక నివసిస్తోంది. తనకు నీడనిచ్చిన ఆ చెట్టంటే చిలుకకు ఎంతో ప్రాణం. కొమ్మలను ఊయలగా చేసి తనను ఆడించిన చెట్టును తన ప్రాణసఖుడిగా, ఉత్తమ స్నేహితుడిగా భావించింది. 

ఆ చెట్టుకు సమీపంలో వేటగాడు ఉండేవాడు. ఓ రోజు ఓ మృగాన్ని గురి చూసి బాణాన్ని వదలగా.. అది గురితప్పి ఆ మహావృక్షం మొదట్లో గుచ్చుకుంది. బాణానికి ఉన్న విష ప్రభావంతో ఆ చెట్టు రోజురోజుకూ క్షీణిస్తూ చివరకు మోడైంది. చెట్టు దుస్థితిని చూసి చిలుక ఎంతో బాధపడింది. చెట్టు మీద మిగతా పక్షులన్నీ తమ దారి తాము వెతుక్కుంటూ వెళ్లిపోయాయి. కానీ చిలుక మాత్రం మోడుబారిన చెట్టు తొర్రలోనే ఉండిపోయింది. 

కొంత కాలం గడిచింది. తరచూ దేవేంద్రుడు ఆకాశ మార్గాన అటుగా వెళ్తుండేవాడు. ఎన్నోసార్లు ఆ చెట్టును చూశాడు. కానీ అన్ని పక్షుల్లా కాక.. చిలుక మాత్రం ఎండిన చెట్టుతోనే ఉండటం దేవేంద్రుడికి ఆశ్చర్యాన్ని కలిగించింది. వెంటనే ఇంద్రుడు ఓ సాధారణ బాటసారిలా ఆ చెట్టు దగ్గరికి వచ్చాడు. అక్కడే ఉన్న చిలుకతో మాట కలిపాడు. ‘చిలుకా! ఈ చెట్టు ఎండిపోయింది కదా.. ఈ పక్కనే ఇంకా పూలు, పళ్లు ఉన్న చెట్లు ఎన్నో ఉన్నాయి. అక్కడికి వెళ్లకుండా నువ్వు ఇక్కడే ఎందుకున్నావ్‌?’ అని ప్రశ్నించాడు. 

ఆ ప్రశ్నకు బదులుగా చిలుక.. ‘ఇన్నాళ్లూ ఈ వృక్షం  స్నేహితుడిగా నన్ను ఆదరించింది. ఇప్పుడు దానికి కష్టం వచ్చిందని, నాకు పనికిరాదని నా దారిని నేను వెళ్లిపోవడం స్నేహధర్మం అనిపించుకోదు’’ అని పలికింది. చిలుక స్నేహభావం ఇంద్రుడికి ముచ్చటగొలిపింది. ‘నీకు ఏదైనా వరం ఇస్తాను కోరుకో’ అన్నాడు ఇంద్రుడు. చిలుక తడుముకోకుండా ‘అయ్యా! నాకంటూ ఏ వరం అక్కర్లేదు. ఈ చెట్టును మళ్లీ బతికించండి’ అని కోరింది. దేవేంద్రుడు కొన్ని అమృతబిందువులను చెట్టుపై చిలకరించాడు. చెట్టు మళ్లీ బతికింది. పచ్చదనాన్ని సంతరించుకుంది. పూలు, పళ్లతో పూర్వవైభవాన్ని పొందింది. 

నిజమైన స్నేహితుడంటే చిలుకలా మిత్రుడి పట్ల సదా కృతజ్ఞత భావంతో మెలుగుతూ ఉండాలని భీష్ముడు ధర్మరాజుకు చెప్పిన ఈ కథసారం స్నేహితులందరికీ ఆచరణీయం, ఆదర్శయోగ్యం.

CHOOSE CONSCIENCE

How do we manage to make decisions when we have to choose a path? 

Life isn't always a straight journey. There are turns, bends, and crossroads when we have to decide which way to go.

Our natural instinct when faced with tough choices is to pick something that seems quick and easy so we can get it over with, but sometimes that path also tests our integrity. It might seem like an easy fix to reach the other side, but anything that goes against the conscience only ends in regret.

When faced with making a decision, choose based on your values, integrity, and the path of truth. The journey might be a little more difficult, but it will lead to success.

Dr. Bhawna Gautam 

THIRUPPAVAI 25TH PAASURAM

 

TIRUPPAVAI 25TH PAASURAM

ORUTHI MAGANAY PIRANDU

Tiruppavai - 25 Andal unequivocally states the purpose of their visit.  She begins by articulating the objective of his avatara.

The 25th paasuram of Tiruppavai, a sacred Tamil scripture, reveals the mystery of the incarnation of Lord Krishna, born to Devaki in prison and raised by Yashoda in secrecy. This paasuram highlights Krishna's divine play, where he instills fear in Kamsa's heart, symbolizing the destruction of ego. The gopis, driven by intense love and devotion, sing hymns to Krishna, seeking relief from their pain and yearning for his divine presence ¹.

This paasuram's deeper meaning highlight the significance of Krishna's birth and life, showcasing his accessibility and the devotees' anxious love. The paasuram concludes with the gopis declaring their desire to serve Krishna and sing his glory, seeking relief from their pain ¹.

THIRUPPAVAI 24TH PAASURAM

THIRUPPAVAI 24TH PAASURAM

ANRI IVVULAGAM ALLANDHAI AADI POTRI

Thiruppavai 24 verse is a beautiful culmination where Andal lists Krishna's heroic acts (Leelas) before finally asking for the fulfillment of their vow (the 'Parai') for the world's prosperity. Andal praises Lord Krishna's glorious deeds, like measuring the world, conquering Lanka, destroying demons (cart-shaped, calf-shaped), and lifting Govardhana Hill, as she and the gopis finally reach the Lord's presence to ask for the 'Parai' (boon) of service. The verse highlights His divine qualities and past feats, showcasing the devotional culmination of their vow. 

This pasuram showcases the divine attributes of Lord Vishnu, highlighting his various avatars and benevolent deeds.

The hymn describes the Lord's various incarnations, including Vamana, Rama, and Krishna, emphasizing his boundless energy and compassion. Andal's Thiruppavai Pasuram 24 beautifully encapsulates the essence of devotion, reverence, and surrender to the Lord ¹.

RELATIONSHIP

 The older you get, the more you realize that love alone is not enough to make a relationship last. You also need accountability, consistency, open communication, understanding, empathy, holding space, clear agreements, conflict resolution, appreciation, respect, support, honesty, loyalty, vulnerability, transparency, a growth mindset, and healthy boundaries.

PERSONALITY OVER LOOKS

When I say I prefer personality over looks, I mean it.

Yes, looks can attract me at first but they fade fast when the heart feels unseen. What stays is someone’s softness, their emotional depth, their ability to love with intention.

Give me a person who understands the five love languages; quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, physical touch, and thoughtful gifts. Someone who knows that love isn’t about grand gestures but about the small, consistent moments that make you feel safe and valued.

I’m drawn to people with kind manners and genuine hearts. Someone who listens without judgment, values deep and honest conversations, appreciates little efforts, and isn’t afraid to be vulnerable. A person who doesn’t just want romance they want connection, growth, and emotional peace.

Because when someone truly aligns with your heart and understands your soul, it’s no longer about appearance or perfection. It’s about energy, empathy, and effort.

That kind of connection hits different, it feels like home. ❤️

~Tanvir Sourov

THIRUPPAVAI 23RD PAASURAM

THIRUPPAVAI 23RD PAASURAM

MARIMALAI MUZHAINIIL

Māri malai muzhainjil," describes the majesty of Lord Vishnu (often interpreted as Narasimha) by comparing Him to a powerful lion emerging from its cave, with fiery eyes and a roaring presence, urging the Gopis to worship Him and seeking His grace for rain and divine protection, signifying deep devotion and surrender. 

Thiruppavai 23, a sacred prayer filled with humility, devotion, and quiet strength. This 23rd pasuram of Thiruppavai is part of the Marghazhi celebrations and is revered for its spiritual significance. According to various interpretations, the poem describes the devotees' plea to the Lord to wake up and bless them with His presence ¹.

The pasuram compares the Lord to a majestic lion sleeping in a mountain cave, awakening with fiery eyes and a mighty roar. It implores the Lord to similarly arise from His slumber, sit on His throne, and grant the devotees' wishes.

Some people think that Thiruppavai 23 holds a special significance as it highlights the unique position of Andal among the 12 Alwars, showcasing her unwavering devotion and love for the Lord. The poem's message emphasizes the importance of humility, devotion, and righteousness in one's spiritual journey.

Spiritual significance: A prayer for devotees to seek the Lord's blessings

PAIN AND REGRET

The snake bit the chicken.

The poison spread through her body, and she ran to the chicken coop for safety.

But the other hens were afraid.

They thought the poison might harm them too.

So they pushed her away.

The chicken walked off slowly, crying.

Not because of the pain,

but because her own family had rejected her

when she needed them most.

She walked alone,

with fever in her body,

dragging one leg,

cold during the nights.

With every step, tears fell.

The hens watched her until she disappeared far away.

Some said,

“Let her go. She will die somewhere else.”

They were sure she was dead.

Some even looked at the sky, waiting to see vultures.

Time passed.

One day, a hummingbird came to the coop and said,

“Your sister is alive.

She lives in a cave nearby.

She survived, but she lost one leg because of the snake bite.

She is weak and cannot find food.

She needs your help.”

No one spoke.

Then excuses began:

“I can’t go, I’m laying eggs.”

“I can’t go, I’m looking for food.”

“I can’t go, I’m caring for my chicks.”

One by one, everyone refused.

The hummingbird went back alone.

Time passed again.

Later, the hummingbird returned with sad news:

“Your sister is dead.

She died alone in the cave.

No one was there for her.”

Silence filled the chicken coop.

Those laying eggs stopped.

Those searching for food dropped the seeds.

Those caring for chicks paused.

Regret hurt more than poison.

“Why didn’t we help her earlier?” they cried.

They all rushed to the cave, crying and blaming themselves.

But when they arrived, the chicken was gone.

Only a letter was there. It said:

“Many times in life, people don’t help you when you are alive,

but they travel far to cry when you are dead.

Most tears at funerals are not from pain,

but from regret.”

LIVE A LIFE THAT MATTERS

At the end of life, the score isn’t measured by how much we owned, how busy we were, or how loudly our names were praised. None of that truly lasts. What remains are the invisible things, the things no receipt can prove, but every heart can remember.

It’s not what we bought, but what we built.

The relationships we nurtured. The families we held together. The trust we earned. The moments we showed up when it would have been easier to walk away.

It’s not what we got, but what we shared.

Our time when we were tired. Our kindness when we had nothing to gain. Our strength when someone else was breaking. These are the gifts that outlive us.

It’s not our competence, but our character.

Skills can be taught. Titles can be given. But character is revealed, in how we treat people who can do nothing for us, in how we act when no one is watching, in how we respond when life doesn’t go our way.

And it’s not our success, but our significance.

Success asks, “How far did you go?”

Significance asks, “Who did you lift along the way?”

In a world obsessed with more, more money, more status, more recognition, choosing meaning is a quiet rebellion. Choosing love is an act of courage. Choosing to live with intention is how an ordinary life becomes an extraordinary legacy.

So slow down.

Listen more.

Love deeper.

Give generously.

Forgive freely.

Because in the end, the life that matters most is the one that made other lives better.

Live a life that matters.

Live a life of love. ❤️

~ Chris Matheka 🇰🇪

Christopher Matheka