WHAT KIND OF MAN DO YOU WANT

If you ask me, "What kind of man do you want?" I won't say tall...I won't say rich... I won't say perfect. I'll say, A man who protects my heart. Who makes me feel chosen, every single day. Who never lets silence feel like punishment. Who never makes me doubt my worth. Who never becomes the reason behind my tears. That's it. Not luxury.. Not perfection. Just kindness.Just safety. Just love that feels like home.

He doesn't need a title, a degree, or a bank account. He just needs to be genuine, to be present, and to care. He needs to understand that my heart is fragile, that my trust is earned, and that my love is a gift. He needs to be the one I turn to, the one I lean on, and the one I feel safe with. No grand gestures, no over-the-top declarations. Just a quiet, steady love that says, "I've got you." That's the man I want. The one who sees me, hears me, and loves me for exactly who I am.

It's not about being needy or dependent; it's about being valued and cherished. It's about feeling like I'm home, like I'm exactly where I'm meant to be. It's about having someone who knows me, flaws and all, and still chooses me, still loves me, and still wants me. That's the kind of love that makes life worth living, that makes every day brighter, and that makes every moment sweeter.

CHARACTER

Vidya dadati vinayam,

Vinaya dadati paatrataam,

paatratva dhanamaapnoti,

dhanaat dharmam tatatsukham.

Education gives Humility,

Humility gives Character,

from character one gets wealth,

from wealth one gets righteousness,

in righteousness there is joy.

This shloka is part of the ancient Indian text, the Hitopadesha, which was composed by Narayan Pandit. The core message is that true education or knowledge is a holistic process that leads to a virtuous and fulfilling life.

HEAL AND RISE

Be brave enough to heal, even when it hurts. Healing isn’t easy, it’s messy, painful, and uncomfortable. But staying broken is far worse.

Pain doesn’t go away when ignored. It seeps into everything, draining your joy, and leaving you stuck in survival mode. Healing means facing that pain, letting yourself feel, and choosing to grow through it.

You don’t have to have all the answers right now. Just don’t give up on yourself. You deserve to feel whole again. 

One day, you’ll look back and realize the pain was temporary, but the strength you gained is forever.

Staying broken was never an option. You were always meant to heal. You were always meant to rise.

📷✍️: Diary of a Soldier's Wife

HAPPINESS

Happiness Is An Inner State Of Being 

We were always taught that our happiness is dependent on something or someone. When we achieve our goal or when we make people happy then we will be happy. Our focus therefore was always to make others happy, because we thought - only when they are happy, will we be happy. Very often we could be under stress, angry or in pain, but we try to make others happy. Let us remember we can take care of family and friends, do everything for them physically, but emotionally we will only be radiating pain, because we are in pain. To give happiness to them, we have to be happy within. 

Let’s clean our thoughts, clear our emotional blockages and create a happy state of inner being, because only then can we radiate happiness to others. It’s not – we will be happy, when they are happy; truth is – if we are happy then we will give happiness to them. 

Let’s check how many times today we say I will be happy when ….. and change it to I am happy while …. Work towards creating your own happiness independent of the outcome.

WISH YOU ALL A HAPPY DHANUMASAM

WISH YOU ALL A HAPPY DHANUMASAM

The month of DHANUMASAM, my most favourite pooja of Lord Krishna.I used to say to my achan that I will not worship your "kalla  Krishnan", but he himself made me to do this pooja, with utmost bhakthi.This pooja is from Tamilnadu.This is not in Kerala.But i loved the theme of this pooja so started from 2007.

Margazhi serves as a bridge between Vaishnavites and Saivites. Vaishnavites sing Tiruppaavai, sung by the legendary Aandal - one of the twelve Alwars,  and the Saivites sings, Tiruvempaavai, sung by Saint  Maanickavaachakar, one of the sixtythree Nayanmars. Both these immortal hymns belong to  the  form of poetry called PAAVAI,  signifying  maiden  girls seeking divine intervention for securing worthy husband's.Pavai Nozhumbu, Gopika worshipped maa katyayani to get lord krishna as a husband. The other important occasions are Aarudra or Tiruvaadhirai, and Vaikunta Ekadashi.Love and relationship Spirituality Margazhi Nombu. Pavai Nombu is performed by women for prosperity and to get a good husband. The history of Pavai Nonbu is more than 2000 years old and is mentioned in the early Tamil scriptures.

SHREE VISHNU ROOPAYA NAMA SHIVAYA.

AN EMPTY CHAIR

Every evening at sunset, an old man placed two chairs outside his small house—

one for himself, and one left empty.

Children playing football often wondered why he waited for someone who never came.

One day, a boy named Ethan finally asked, “Sir, who is the empty chair for?”

The old man smiled gently.

“When I was young, I went through a very difficult time. One evening, a stranger saw me, brought out a chair, and said, ‘Sit. You look tired.’ He didn’t ask my name. He didn’t expect anything. He just gave me space to breathe. That small act saved me.”

He looked at the empty chair beside him.

“So now I keep a chair ready for anyone who might need it—someone tired, lonely, or overwhelmed. If they ever walk by, I want them to know there’s a place for them.”

And people did stop.

A woman who had lost her job.

A student stressed about life.

Someone who simply needed a moment of quiet.

The old man never asked questions.

He just shared silence, warmth, and presence.

Soon, others in the neighborhood began keeping an extra chair outside their homes too.

A simple wooden chair became a symbol of compassion.

Moral:

You don’t need much to help someone.

Sometimes, the smallest space you create for others becomes the biggest kindness they receive.

BALANCE

This simple teaching carries a powerful truth.

Most of the suffering in life doesn’t come from the things themselves, but from our relationship with them. Too much of anything — even something good — becomes harmful.

Power becomes poison when it turns into control.

Comfort becomes poison when it turns into laziness.

Food becomes poison when it turns into indulgence.

Ego becomes poison when it blinds you to truth.

Ambition becomes poison when it destroys your peace.

Vanity becomes poison when you forget humility.

Fear becomes poison when it stops your growth.

Anger becomes poison when you hold it too long.

Buddhism teaches the Middle Way — balance in all things.

Not too much, not too little.

Not suppressing, not overindulging.

Just the right measure that keeps the mind steady, the heart open, and life in harmony.

Poison is not always a substance.

Sometimes it is a habit, an attachment, or a mindset.

Wisdom is knowing when enough is enough.

Balance is the real cure.

WOMAN

 Woman should support.

YOU CAN ALWAYS TELL WHO THE STRONG WOMEN ARE.THEY ARE THE ONES YOU SEE BUILDING ONE ANOTHER UP INSTEAD OF TEARING EACH OTHER DOWN.

FRIENDSHIP

True friendship exists between genders.There should be honesty and integrity in it. That's a strong statement! I know what real friendship means and i am not afraid to show it. This passion and honesty is what my true friends love and admire about me.

No matter what the destiny play a game in a friendship or may it go smart and clever.If the bond is strong and never needs to tie a band.The friends are truly forever.It goes with the days more stronger than any knot of ties.A Real Hearty and emotional friendship never dies.

When you ask God for a gift, be thankful if he sends, not diamonds, pearls, or riches,

but the love of real true friends.

Among life's precious jewels, genuine and rare,

The one that we call Friendship worth beyond compare. Friendship is like a golden thread that binds two hearts a feeling that keeps growing even when we are far apart no matter where we are.

 

you can't see me, you can't hear me

But I am some where close to you

want to know Who I amI,  am not the angle nor the Ambassador of GOD. I am the one true to my self and true to my LORD........

Dedication this to all my male friends.

 

ETERNAL DHARMA

Swami Chinmayanandaji a renowned saint, was met by a a 'secular' minded journalist, who generally bent upon showing Hinduism in poor light, vis a vis other religions, asked a question to Swamiji:
Q: Who is the founder of Islam?
A: Prophet Mohammad.
Q: Who is the founder of Christianity?
A: Jesus Christ.
Q: Who is the founder of Hinduism?

Thinking that Swamiji has been trapped in a ticklish situation with no answer,
the lady journalist enthusuastically proceeded further:
Yes. There is no
founder and hence, Hinduism is not a religion or Dharma at all.
A: Then, Swamiji said: You are right.
Hinduism is not a religion.
It is a Science.

She did not understand that.
Now it was turn of Swamiji to put some questions to journalist lady.
Q: Who is the founder of Physics?
Ans: No one person.
Who is the founder of Chemistry?
Ans: No one person.
Who is the founder of Biology?
Ans: No single person.
Many many persons, from time to time, contributed to the wealth of knowledge of any Science.
Swamiji continued:
Hindu Dharma is a Science, developed
over the centuries, contributed by
saints and sages for giving right
direction to the society.
Islam has only one book -Quran.
Christianity has only one book -Bible.
But for Hinduism, I can take you to a library and show you hundreds of books.
Hence, Hinduism is a scientific religion- called Sanatana Dharma . Eternal Dharma.