TRUE LOVE

Love is a house built on the firm foundation of understanding. True love is an essence of a feeling in a soul. It is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be. It is the feeling of true happiness, language that heart’s express, unselfish, understanding and kind, it sees with its heart and not with its mind”.” Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (Romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.Without love, caring relationships and compassion, life is indeed a dry and shallow thing.

This intangible thing love...enters into every theraputic relationship. It is an element which finds and heals, which comforts and restores.Where there is love, there's a heaven! Although one would be hard- pressed to define a romantic attraction as "love." They are really not at all the same things.

In her article, "Turning Sweet Nothings into Sweet Somethings," Marjorie Holmes points out some differences between romance and authentic love: • Romance is seeking perfection, love is forgiving faults.
• Romance is flying, love is a safe landing.
• Romance is the anguish of waiting for the phone to ring to bring you a voice that will utter endearments; love is the anguish of waiting for a call that will assure you someone else is happy and safe.
• Romance is eager, striving always to appear attractive for each other, love is two people who find beauty in each other no matter how they look.
(Authentic love will find many expressions -- the love of spouses; the love of friends; the love of families. And if your love is real, watch out -- once it starts growing, there's nothing that can stop it!) I thought let me pick one very old Hindi song that most aptly puts my idea of "LOVE" into words. Gulzar pens the lyrics. This song is one that really moves me.
The lyrics, the music everything. The lyrics of Gulzar are amazing from the word go. Never has this concept been so well put in words as by Gulzar in this one song from the movie “KHAMOSHI” (1969).The song is the pick of the lot. Ham Ne Dekhii Hai In Aa.Nkho.N Kii Mahakatii KhushubuuHaath Se Chhuuke Ise Rishto.N Kaa Ilzaam Na DoSirf Ehasaas Hai Ye Ruuh Se Mehasoos KaroPyaar Ko Pyaar Hii Rehane Do Koii Naam Na Do.Meaning of the song: (I have felt the lingering fragrance of those eyes, don’t try and touch it with your hands to brand it as a relationship, it is only a sensation, this thing they call love, feel it with your soul and let it remain at that, don’t cubbyhole it with a name).

“LOVE IS TO HUMAN HEART'S WHAT'S THE SUN IS TO FLOWERS”. Love is the best beauty treatment in the world. There is nothing that adds beauty and radiance to a human face like the presence of love in the heart. One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is LOVE.
Love is patient, kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres and self less. If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else. If you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you do have.Last but not least when love becomes limited to words, it becomes meaningless.True Love is a circle (infinite), Circling forever thru all time and can take many directions which has no end.